To continue from my monday on asking qn using the 2 wooden blocks..
Today i going to share how to phrase or rephrase your qn more appropriately when asking GYM to increase the chance of getting sheng beis for getting lots..
Example taken from one of my taiwan case:
Lady A asked Mazu - She and her bf going get married after been together for quite sometime and recently met with some issues so she would like to know what would be their marriage future be like?
Mazu did not gave her sheng bei to allow her to draw lots so she asked me why Mazu dont want give her advice?
So what went wrong with her qn?
If Mazu agreed to gave her advice and told her tat her marriage or their future after marriage would not be good, Lady A will:
- break up with her bf since Mazhu said not good?
- since going get married, just swallow it and get married. Mazhu’s word would become like a needle keep poking the couple whenever there is any unhappiness or quarrels in the future.
If Mazhu said good then of cos Lady A would be happy but what if things happened halfway ? Complain Mazhu not accurate? lol
So lady A asked how should she ask Mazhu? and i gave her the following suggestions to try:
a. ask about the future of the relationship and wat to take note to have better relationship.
b. ask what can she or her bf do on their part to improve their relationship
Lady A went back to try asking again and successfully gotten sheng bei after asking the suggested Qn a. and gotten 4 lots for advices
Hmm.. seems like hard to ask qn correctly? Actually no, just tat we need to think thru our qn abit before asking.
Instead of asking what would be the outcome or the future be like,
try asking what can i do on my end to ensure the success or to have a higher chance of achieving my goal?
Similarly, like asking if you will pass the job interview or exams. very high percent tat GYM will not ans you as the outcome would be out just a matter of time..
So to get accurate advices, right methods and right qn asked are required. (人5分,神5分)