do u accept your fate?

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Fate & destiny already planned when we are born.
Do what also no use.
You ever see buffalo work hard got turn into dragon?
 
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and what if the eventual destiny is a negative one?
Face it. Take whatever life hits you and continue on. Seek help.

That is life. Anything is possible to happen.
As the idiom goes,

“麻绳专挑细处断,厄运专找苦命人”​

"A rope always breaks at its weakest spot, and misfortune always strikes the unlucky."

Alternatively, a more idiomatic and proverbial rendering could be:
"Misfortune always targets those already in hardship."
 

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Steady la !
Ah mah largely agree with u. While not a lot of thg we can’t choose there r 101 thg we can
A person spoke during a talk

“Everyone always has a choice”

then of course came the argument what about the Jews being sent to ovens what choice did they have….

He then said something that struck me

“They still have a choice. They can attack the guards, run and escape etc etc, now you can say but they will be shot. True. But my point is that everyone has choices. I never said that there will be a good choice. Sometimes all choices are bad. But you are never completely helpless.

So a person can be in a bad situation. Maybe all options to him are bad. Like steal money and go jail or don’t steal and go hungry and dai

But he still has a choice and not totally mybfd.

I still remembered my feedback form for the class

Under “what did you learn from this course?”, I put I don’t know if what I learned from this course is relevant to my job but after this course, I am going back to my department and apply for no pay leave and travel round the world. Kid you not. I really wrote something like that. I have a choice, don’t I? And this course was in mid 2017 and I went for my rtw trip in 2018 (took a while to get the leave and itinerary and visas)

My colleague went for the course and after that she also went for a long holiday. I was joking that my boss will stop sending people for this course or at least not with this speaker 😂. I think they really stopped after me and my friend but it could be coincidence
 

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Why worry about future when you do not even know if the next minute you still alive or not?

live this live to the fullest you can so that at the last minute when you reflect back, you do not have regret.

what you don’t know, should not worry you If you did your besterest.
 

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As of late, i no choice but accept my fate
Cant get date, sho use hand to masturbate.

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A person spoke during a talk

“Everyone always has a choice”

then of course came the argument what about the Jews being sent to ovens what choice did they have….

He then said something that struck me

“They still have a choice. They can attack the guards, run and escape etc etc, now you can say but they will be shot. True. But my point is that everyone has choices. I never said that there will be a good choice. Sometimes all choices are bad. But you are never completely helpless.

So a person can be in a bad situation. Maybe all options to him are bad. Like steal money and go jail or don’t steal and go hungry and dai

But he still has a choice and not totally mybfd.

I still remembered my feedback form for the class

Under “what did you learn from this course?”, I put I don’t know if what I learned from this course is relevant to my job but after this course, I am going back to my department and apply for no pay leave and travel round the world. Kid you not. I really wrote something like that. I have a choice, don’t I? And this course was in mid 2017 and I went for my rtw trip in 2018 (took a while to get the leave and itinerary and visas)

My colleague went for the course and after that she also went for a long holiday. I was joking that my boss will stop sending people for this course or at least not with this speaker 😂. I think they really stopped after me and my friend but it could be coincidence
Then came Covid in 2019 year end -2022 q1
U stucked in sg . U will thank urself u went for the trip u wanted before that
 

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I try n do my best n change it where I can. If not within my power or I tried my best then accept.
Same here , old liao wisen up. When I was young n toopid I believe I could change anyth I wanted , become anyth if I worked hard enuf but irl not true and I learnt it only after 5-10 y
 

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A person spoke during a talk

“Everyone always has a choice”

then of course came the argument what about the Jews being sent to ovens what choice did they have….

He then said something that struck me

“They still have a choice. They can attack the guards, run and escape etc etc, now you can say but they will be shot. True. But my point is that everyone has choices. I never said that there will be a good choice. Sometimes all choices are bad. But you are never completely helpless.

So a person can be in a bad situation. Maybe all options to him are bad. Like steal money and go jail or don’t steal and go hungry and dai

But he still has a choice and not totally mybfd.

I still remembered my feedback form for the class

Under “what did you learn from this course?”, I put I don’t know if what I learned from this course is relevant to my job but after this course, I am going back to my department and apply for no pay leave and travel round the world. Kid you not. I really wrote something like that. I have a choice, don’t I? And this course was in mid 2017 and I went for my rtw trip in 2018 (took a while to get the leave and itinerary and visas)

My colleague went for the course and after that she also went for a long holiday. I was joking that my boss will stop sending people for this course or at least not with this speaker 😂. I think they really stopped after me and my friend but it could be coincidence
U promoting this course eh, skillfuture eh Sai buay ? Ah mah wants to go also one fine day when no cardboard to pick
 

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Same here , old liao wisen up. When I was young n toopid I believe I could change anyth I wanted , become anyth if I worked hard enuf but irl not true and I learnt it only after 5-10 y
Something ownself can change via own efforts. But many things r just left to luck n environment, system n ppl.
 

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Then came Covid in 2019 year end -2022 q1
U stucked in sg . U will thank urself u went for the trip u wanted before that
Actually I did. Cos after Covid Russia attacked Ukraine. My route actually consisted of a train trip from Beijing to Mongolia to Russia then to Belarus, Poland, Germany and France. I think the route is now closed liao
 
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