Do u lose your temper when teaching your child?

[mummy1234]

I am very frustrated trying to teach my younger P3 Son division. He doesn't seem to understand despite repeated explanations. I wonder if his head injuries when younger, had 2 scalp lacerations, cephalohematoma when born and other knocks, affected his brain until he retarded.

 

[mummy1234]

Or is it that kids r forced to learn things normally taught 2 years earlier as a tuition teacher told me? Last time, I only learned multiplication and division in P4 but now they teach in P2. No wonder kids r getting more stressed and more suicides in kids in Sg. Sometimes, I really wish I can leave this God damned country that is giving me so much stress.

 

[mummy1234]

I hear from a clinic assistant today that she knows of a kid struggling with Chinese and crying.

 

[mummy1234]

And why is the teacher giving my Son homework on division when he doesn't seem to understand at all? Is the teacher so lousy at teaching. It is very tiring for parents and expensive to send for tuition ... Teachers should teach better in class.

 

[mummy1234]

Sometimes I get so frustrated and disillusioned with them that I tell them they will end up as toilet Cleaners and Road sweepers.

 

[pdsubbu]

Yup sometimes. As they grow up it becomes easy for us. No other option but to pass by.

 

[Dvoiddeckbench]

Still young, no need to give them stress. It's the age to play and be stress free. You also dont give yourself stress. Fail or succeed in life is not determine by academics.

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[SunnyStall]

And why is the teacher giving my Son homework on division when he doesn't seem to understand at all? Is the teacher so lousy at teaching. It is very tiring for parents and expensive to send for tuition ... Teachers should teach better in class.

Hire a tutor to teach the kid? With higher salary like yours, can afford. Sometimes is better to outsource.

 

[Takechan]

...his brain until he retarded.

Obvious troll is obvious

 

[BwaySaiBoot]

I am very frustrated trying to teach my younger P3 Son division. He doesn't seem to understand despite repeated explanations. I wonder if his head injuries when younger, had 2 scalp lacerations, cephalohematoma when born and other knocks, affected his brain until he retarded.

how to tell? but your IQ must be very high to get so many A, so if his is not high then either your gene got block or overshadow or the head knock ko the IQ.

i go check article it say drop more than 10 IQ point le.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2077538/

but then if your iq so high, say 150, minus 10 will be 140 still ok.
unless maybe your kid is adopt one not.

 

[vasnade]

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[Polar Bear King]

I am very frustrated trying to teach my younger P3 Son division. He doesn't seem to understand despite repeated explanations. I wonder if his head injuries when younger, had 2 scalp lacerations, cephalohematoma when born and other knocks, affected his brain until he retarded.

same here
sometimes it's just our expectation too high.
take it lightly,best to get tutor to teach lor

 

[member1]

finish, once about p3 if show no interested in study or can't learn mean gg. no more doctor or lawyer...

the problem i think is with the parent always, but actually the most importance subject how smart a child is , i think is math. if a child do very well in math, he a talent to grow, the other subject are just " bullF"

 

[hattorihanzo]

I am very frustrated trying to teach my younger P3 Son division. He doesn't seem to understand despite repeated explanations. I wonder if his head injuries when younger, had 2 scalp lacerations, cephalohematoma when born and other knocks, affected his brain until he retarded.

Your the doctor you say leh?

 

[member1]

actually if when p3 cannot learn, the child already loss the core or interested in education already..

 

[Polar Bear King]

finish, once about p3 if show no interested in study or can't learn mean gg. no more doctor or lawyer...

the problem i think is with the parent always, but actually the most importance subject how smart a child is , i think is math. if a child do very well in math, he a talent to grow, the other subject are just " bullF"

who say one? i can tell you i IMO my childhood time just played and played never put real effort to study. and my other classmates some did better than me overall but none could beat my maths.
so both your statements too generalised lar...........

 

[SunnyStall]

You could lost interest even if you are above P3. Sometimes is the way the teachers in school that cause the kids lost interest in the subjects. Maths is only one subject, languages are also important.

 

[mssynice168]

I used to scream alot when she dun get wat I m teaching her. Sometimes the answer is right in front of her and yet she choose to look else where n got it wrong. Then some time in end P4, wat she said wakes up my mind. If she has anything she dun noe, she choose to b wrong then to ask cos she was too scare she couldn't understand my teaching n scare i scream at her.

From tat day onwards, I hv never scold her once, even if she dun get it, even if she fail. If she fail, I w ask her, wat could we do to help her do better, does she needs extra assmt books? Even for assmt books, we go buy together.

After every exam, so long as she shows tat she has worked hard, we w go celebrate regardless of results. Even for her PSLE last yr, she was almost the lowest in whole class, but we are so happy that she pass and so proud of her, yet from wat she told me, her classmates many got scolded for not doing better.

I never really study hard during my earlier days, it was really a miracle tat I managed to complete my studies. So I have to be fair to her.

Now, I dun really care now whether she do well in her studies, there are many other routes in life, so long as she is healthy and she got her moral values right, the rest are not impt to me.

 

[Jasmine11]

I am very frustrated trying to teach my younger P3 Son division. He doesn't seem to understand despite repeated explanations. I wonder if his head injuries when younger, had 2 scalp lacerations, cephalohematoma when born and other knocks, affected his brain until he retarded.

My parents also had a hard time teaching me when I was young, I think it is normal la because in the end i turn out okay in life I guess. Hehe XD

 

[pdsubbu]

It's our routine in life. Parenting isn't a small job. isn't it.

When Kids group, things are going to be normal..