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psyger-zero

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....
its usually 祸不单行. unless u believe oyk's light at the end of tunnel
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....
All things happened due to conditions; there's no certainty in 'bad things' experienced and perceived now would be followed by 'good things' - 'bad' could turn better or become worse, likewise for 'good' stuff.

Best is not to get too attached to the past nor anticipate too much for the future. Just do your best at the present moment and see the results unfold. Ultimately, good/bad and happiness/sadness are impermanent.

Good luck.
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....
It may take years before the good will come

When bad things start happen on you?
 

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moderate chuir expectation

problems start with being self-righteous

common problems with all singaporeans

:LOL::LOL::LOL:
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....
Last time I thought I would start practising the Dharma when I'm old. Till I heard a Shifu said practise the Dharma when you are well and good. If wait till bad things happen (negative karmic seeds ripen), it will be too late. Luckily I heed the Shifu's advice.
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?
Yes that is true

but then for some things you need to make a decision to initiate a change yourself

like if a bad partner, a bad job, a bad habit etc

If keep staying in it, you know it might not change
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....

no such guarantee de... bad things can hab even worse things happening... :s22::frown:
 

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Sometimes it's perception.

When one bad thing happened you tend to be more sensitive to other bad things, big or small, or see most things as bad.

Sometimes it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

When one bad thing happened you become negative/ don't sleep enough/ don't eat well/ whole day face black black (or green green, if scared/ worried) then more mistakes/ accidents/ health issues/ interpersonal issues may happen.

So what I normally do is when something bad happen I try to settle/ salvage as best as I could then will put it down/ walk away and stop thinking about it or make some changes as some here suggest or take a break... so that I don't spiral downwards, whether perceived or real.
 

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You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.

And until you realize this, TS, you will live from crisis to crisis.
 

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I absolutely don't believe

Because, for me, bad things go on forever and ever
 

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no such thing called good things
only bad things exist
 

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There's a joke a guy went to a fortune teller.
Fortune teller told the guy his life full of hardships.
Guy very sad. Den fortune teller continued say "till you are 40 years old....."
Guy hear liao suddenly got some hope and ask excitedly " what happens after 40years old?!"
Fortune teller says, " you'll gets used to them already by then"
 

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It is a test of your resolve when bad things come. It is a test of your restrain when good things come. Dwell in neither of those, cos they come and go. Be blessed that you have constant reminders. Some ppl only have one test in their life and they failed badly.
 

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Once bad things pass, then good things will come?

I'm facing bad things one after another, trying to get over... Don't know will see light at the end or not....
If you go sit changi for many years. I can assure you. All bad things stop cuz can't grt any badder
 
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