Do you ever meet such person...

[Lchlch]

I only can wait for her to die.

Her hobby is show black face, just like people owe her like that. sometimes cabinet door never close fully, she also black face, then she will use her walking stick to stomp on the floor, like people owe her like that. e.g yesterday she just did that.

at times she also use walking stick to hit things, like hit table, hit boxes, etc. why i know cause i got cctv installed in living room and i saw. sometimes i also wonder walking stick is use for hitting stuffs or to aid her in her walking.

full of negativity also, always say early die faster, every single day sure will have this word come out from her mouth. listen liao also sian. even my parents went overseas she also kpkb say always go overseas, dont come back better, blah blah.

back in those days when i got talk to her, share things with her she will always try to bring people down. not once, but many times already, until the day back in 2019, i told myself enough is enough, then try dont talk to her for few months try, then see how, and true enough i found peace. it also took her few months to notice that i never talk to her.

Sometimes we might develop negative personality. Sometimes. When we are away from such person, can feel the positive vibes return.

 

[AngelRomeo]

The negative vibes n energy.
Why such person behave in this way?
I am not picking a fight.

Eh, I ask you. Want to ho where eat breakfast?

Is that question picking a fight?

its all in the mindset bro.
no one loves negative vibes.

 

[AngelRomeo]

Sometimes we might develop negative personality. Sometimes. When we are away from such person, can feel the positive vibes return.

this one i agree.
got one of my colleague also produce negative vibes, until one day i cannot ta han i told my supervisor about him, then he suddenly 360 degree change.

 

[Lchlch]

its all in the mindset bro.
no one loves negative vibes.

Yeah, we can feel it, the bad energy.

Also according to my faith, nvr speak bad things on another person. Cos words come out is very negative n can hv impact.

 

[articland05]

TS has many enemies surrounding him
i wonder why

 

[DragonFire]

1. You talk back, the person will make your life suffer.

2. If you suggest to the person, the person will make your life suffer.

Meaning, must stay quiet even if you are right or neutral.

Cannot doeak in front of that person even asking a simple non confrontational questions.

The person can say about you, but you cannot talk back

What shd you do?

Suck it up. Sounds just like the dowager of the household.
Nothing the fsck you can do. That is what it means to be utterly powerless.
Don't even complain. You will be found out sooner or later because the walls have ears.

 

[Lchlch]

Suck it up. Sounds just like the dowager of the household.
Nothing the fsck you can do. That is what it means to be utterly powerless.
Don't even complain. You will be found out sooner or later because the walls have ears.

Yeah, a person is powerless.
A person has no right to speak even a person is 100% right.
A person must fook up his mouth regardless of anything fook matters.
A person must always stay silent.

 

[RSKeisuke]

1. You talk back, the person will make your life suffer.

2. If you suggest to the person, the person will make your life suffer.

Meaning, must stay quiet even if you are right or neutral.

Cannot doeak in front of that person even asking a simple non confrontational questions.

The person can say about you, but you cannot talk back

What shd you do?

sounds like PAP govt

 

[Lchlch]

TS has many enemies surrounding him
i wonder why

Bro, is like upu mind yr biz, people still pick on you.
Upu try yo help, people still pick on you.
So best is solitude..away from such evil toxic people.

 

[MoeLanYong]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD person. Avoid such people. Zero contact.

 

[Lchlch]

sounds like PAP govt

Oh bro, dnt bring politics here ya.

 

[Lchlch]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD person. Avoid such people. Zero contact.

Yes, avoid at all cost.

 

[Lchlch]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD person. Avoid such people. Zero contact.

Also a bloody bait trap..

 

[tExtra]

Run loh~ in similar situation nao. Dunno if the future moi will regret notch..

 

[diequick]

The negative vibes n energy.
Why such person behave in this way?
I am not picking a fight.

Eh, I ask you. Want to ho where eat breakfast?

Is that question picking a fight?

Different pple, different personalities/characters/worries. I wont behave the same with friends(if gt any), (all ex leow) colleagues, classmates/coursemates, NS (heng bo), family, relatives.

idk the context, but i remember u work shift? 4 to 4?

Just an e.g.

For me, work is work. i also responsible for say 9 to 5 calls. Of cos i hope to leave on time too. If u ask me "go eat breakfast", i will tell u "no, nt interested", i eat at home, reach office 8.30, start leow. If someone strolled in at 9+, then ask me "want to go where eat breakfast", of cos i damn TL. 1. u kaki "break contract" (by nt coming on time) and want me to join breakfast as well. German work laws quite strict. i stayed late, and answer his email, immediately call my desk phone.

If i handle the s**t work at 8.30 finished by 9.30, go for 1/2 hr break, of cos i make it short, bo eng leow, still ask me go where, where u expect me to go? some dim sum place meh? i m eat to live, nt live to eat. Go coffee shop, kopi o kosong, egg, bread, done. dun waste my brain power make decision 4 u.

Of cos, now if u ask me go where breakfast (i also jiak leow), eng eng, McD, or some where, can sit until grow roots lor.

Context, person (personality) matters. Different ctx, pple, diff comms style.

 

[The Legionnaire]

Sometimes, the person will attack another to make you suffer.

Combine and retaliate, Bro! The enemy of your friend is an enemy!

 

[Lchlch]

Different pple, different personalities/characters/worries. I wont behave the same with friends(if gt any), (all ex leow) colleagues, classmates/coursemates, NS (heng bo), family, relatives.

idk the context, but i remember u work shift? 4 to 4?

Just an e.g.

For me, work is work. i also responsible for say 9 to 5 calls. Of cos i hope to leave on time too. If u ask me "go eat breakfast", i will tell u "no, nt interested", i eat at home, reach office 8.30, start leow. If someone strolled in at 9+, then ask me "want to go where eat breakfast", of cos i damn TL. 1. u kaki "break contract" (by nt coming on time) and want me to join breakfast as well. German work laws quite strict. i stayed late, and answer his email, immediately call my desk phone.

If i handle the s**t work at 8.30 finished by 9.30, go for 1/2 hr break, of cos i make it short, bo eng leow, still ask me go where, where u expect me to go? some dim sum place meh? i m eat to live, nt live to eat. Go coffee shop, kopi o kosong, egg, bread, done. dun waste my brain power make decision 4 u.

Of cos, now if u ask me go where breakfast (i also jiak leow), eng eng, McD, or some where, can sit until grow roots lor.

Context, person (personality) matters. Different ctx, pple, diff comms style.

Yes also whether happen where.

 

[kan-kon]

record all wrong doing and talk, sho in the future can use it back against dat person

 

[AUTUMN&WINTER]

The negative vibes n energy.
Why such person behave in this way?
I am not picking a fight.

Eh, I ask you. Want to ho where eat breakfast?

Is that question picking a fight?

I know what you meant. Sometimes I straight away mumbled to myself " crazy' or ' siao' because I couldn't help it. After that I repent, no good to say those words. Sometimes he could hear me mumbling and he kept quiet, I think he knew he's weird but couldn't help to behave. Till lately his friend has late stage cancer and he seemed to change for the better. These people must see or hear death then can change for the better.

 

[idolcritic]

Is this related to neighbor country?