Entering 2024 Single [Not AMA]

[forwardagenda]

Ended 15 year relationship (married for 10). Wife potong jalan.

Now on a house hunt to resume my bachelor life. BBFA club, new member reporting in.

Have learnt a lot about myself and my ex through this process. Really eye-opening.

 

[darkelf]

What is potong jalan

 

[foo9883]

what happened?

 

[ClassyNFabulous]

What is potong jalan

run lion

 

[forwardagenda]

What is potong jalan

Kenna cut queue in malay. Means people snatch your girl.

 

[sazanami]

thats fine. how are the assets distributed?

 

[forwardagenda]

what happened?

Ex-wife decided that she changed her mind about how important it was to be a mother for her, and she needed to explore having fun with different men.

 

[Weaboo]

bro... take care... hope u r not pwn by WC

 

[forwardagenda]

thats fine. how are the assets distributed?

Almost 50-50. She still tiap me a bit of legal fee so she lost out more.

 

[foo9883]

15 year relationship can also end like that.

how to know if someone is really your life partner when only dated 2-3 years?

 

[foo9883]

Almost 50-50. She still tiap me a bit of legal fee so she lost out more.

but did you pay more throughout the marriage tho e.g. house you paid more.

 

[forwardagenda]

bro... take care... hope u r not pwn by WC

Didn't kenna pown jialat jialat by WC as I got 50% of assets. But kenna by property market. Now looking very hard for a place I can afford.

 

[forwardagenda]

but did you pay more throughout the marriage tho e.g. house you paid more.

Won't say a lot more. The biggest difference was just gifts. Usually she give me cheap ones and I give her more expensive ones.
CPF we both maxed out contribution and we max out our mortgage payments, so it's more or less even.

 

[EDMW-Hates-Me]

Ex-wife decided that she changed her mind about how important it was to be a mother for her, and she needed to explore having fun with different men.

You all have kids or not? You have custody?

 

[forwardagenda]

15 year relationship can also end like that.

how to know if someone is really your life partner when only dated 2-3 years?

People can change overnight. It literally changed within 24hours. From being very clingy and loving (and preaching monogamy and loyalty) one day to rawdogging another dude the next day.

 

[Duapui-ti]

Move on bro you are still young .

 

[rainygrainy]

Wat abt the children if any...??

 

[Tintin&Sn0wy]

Ended 15 year relationship (married for 10). Wife potong jalan.

Now on a house hunt to resume my bachelor life. BBFA club, new member reporting in.

Have learnt a lot about myself and my ex through this process. Really eye-opening.

take care ts!

 

[PhantomOpera]

Sorry to hear that. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them. Moving on may not be a bad decision. Wishing you well and fighting!





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[forwardagenda]

take care ts!

Move on bro you are still young .

Thank you. Yes, will have to look forward anyway.