[GPGT] Another case of school bullying: Primary 5 student beaten till hospitalized...Mother has filed police report

[matrix05]

但因为是外国学生，所以比同年级的同学多了一两岁，身材也比较高大。

A xenophobic thread. Looks like sinkie got trashed and lunch stolen.

 

[sunnyisandsingapore]

PAP is right
All schools are good schools.
Equally bad.

best comment and great humor! Moi Sunday is good, thanks to your funny reply.

 

[sanukboy]

Reinstate caning?

Not for this case...
Because the perpetrator is a FOREIGN TALENT...

Btw many years ago my son's ear was BITTEN
by a son of FOREIGN TALENT in kindergarten...
And his parents didn't even bother to APOLOGISE...

Fortunately, my son went to the primary school
beside HCI in Bukit Timah subsequently
where students from THAT PART of the world
are basically non existent...
and managed to escape from them for 6 good years...

So I am very clear about how the system works...

 

[(^@^)"]

Stay private hospital. Class A. Claim the bully's parents hor yee see.

 

[sanukboy]

但因为是外国学生，所以比同年级的同学多了一两岁，身材也比较高大。

A xenophobic thread. Looks like sinkie got trashed and lunch stolen.

It is perfectly all right to steal someone's lunch...

But when you are being PHYSICALLY ASSAULTED...
Then it is no longer about being xenophobic already...

I am NOT SURE if you have SERVED NS...
But it seems that you have yet to..
Else you would have known the reason why...

 

[buffybuffy]

Poor boy. Not being sarcastic but is the parents part of 69.86%? They should know nowadays things work differently compared to 20 over years ago.

Now all leerated one. How they going to fight for their son? The reason why Chan dares to openly indirectly protect the bully could be these bullies have some backgrounds or volunteers.

 

[deathan9el]

wow
what's going on in the schools these days?

one after another

 

[bigrooster]

Just report police and send that bully to boys' home lah...

Last time sent to boys home was no joke one. Not sure nowadays how is it.

But Minister Chan last month said: "Bullying. It is a complex problem - not one that can be solved with simple, one-size-fits-all solutions. It often needs a nuanced approach - one that prioritises the well-being and reform of BOTH victims and perpetrators. "
Source: CCS FB.

 

[RedEyesFan]

No one die yet... so don't expect PAP to react.

 

[johnsonheng]

但因为是外国学生，所以比同年级的同学多了一两岁，身材也比较高大。

A xenophobic thread. Looks like sinkie got trashed and lunch stolen.

Coz chan wanted to look strong and make stuff easy for the school.

Not kNowing his words are making him unpopular.

If he not in pap strong hold. He would have been vote out

 

[Spirax]

https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/i-had-no-escape-bullying-and-teen-aggression-singapore-schools

if MOE cannot managed, can refer to SPF to deal with bullies

 

[fortunecat]

CCS pls come clean what is done for this case

 

[woonwoonjiakbeehoon]

What can Ah Seng do ?

monitoring, as usual

 

[1982-1994]

Another suspected bullying incident occurred in a local school! A fifth-grade boy in a primary school in the north complained that he was pushed down and punched by a classmate in the school. He was hospitalized for headache, dizziness and nausea. Two weeks later, he sought medical treatment again for bruises on his cheek.

The boy's 46-year-old single mother, Ms. Chen, expressed her heartache several times during the interview, saying "My heart is broken and I don't know how to describe it!"

She said she was beaten because she didn't want to talk to the other party.

According to Ms. Chen, the incident happened at around 1 pm on the 8th of last month. On that day, the fifth-grade students in the school took an oral test. Her 11-year-old son was in the fifth grade and was waiting for the oral test in the school cafeteria with his classmates.

According to the boy's description to his mother, while waiting, he put his hand on a newly painted wall, but he slipped and fell, so he told his classmates about the incident. Not long after, another boy who was accused of being a "school bully" walked up to him and kept asking him what happened, but Ms. Chen's son didn't want to talk to him and ignored him.

At this time, the other party seemed to be "angry and embarrassed" and "greeted" Ms. Chen's son with insulting words. Ms. Chen said that her son told the other party "Don't talk to me like that!" Unexpectedly, this sentence angered the other party even more, so he pushed Ms. Chen's son to the ground, followed by a round of punches and kicks.

Finally, the teacher arrived after receiving the notice and sent Chen to the school office to apply ice.

According to Ms. Chen, although the other party is in the fifth grade like her son, because he is a foreign student, he is one or two years older than his classmates in the same grade and is taller.

After returning home, he was dizzy and wanted to vomit and was urgently admitted to the hospital.

Ms. Chen, who works in the mechanical and electronic engineering industry, said that she received a call from her son that day, saying that he had been beaten at school and still took the oral exam. She heard her son's tone at the time and felt that he was very tired and in pain. Later, she received a call from the school to notify her. But because she was busy with work, she did not ask for details. It was not until she got home in the evening that she asked him carefully and noticed that his head was red and swollen, and her son also said that he was a little dizzy and wanted to vomit.

As a mother, she was terrified. Worried about her son's concussion, she immediately asked her brother to take them to the emergency department of KK Women's and Children's Hospital for medical treatment.

She and her son spent the night in the ward, and the next day's examination showed that the boy had a mild concussion. However, since he had to take an exam on October 10, the boy was discharged from the hospital on the 9th.

Police confirmed that they had received a report

During the hospitalization, Ms. Chen also called the police immediately, and the police also confirmed that they had received a report when questioned.

Ms. Chen said that her son, who was originally lively, seemed to have some post-traumatic stress disorder after experiencing this incident. He liked to go to school and even said several times that he didn't want to go to school anymore. In addition, the interest class teacher also noticed his changes and he seemed quieter during class.

What made Ms. Chen even more heartbroken was that her son often said that his cheek hurt. On October 24, he suddenly had a bruise on his face, which had no obvious injuries. Ms. Chen then sent her son to the hospital for an X-ray. Fortunately, no serious injuries were found, but the cost of these two hospitalizations has accumulated to thousands of dollars.

Expect the other party's parents to take responsibility and apologize
Ms. Chen emphasized in an interview with Channel 8 that she had been in contact with the school on the day of the incident and afterwards. She learned that the other party's parents had apologized to the school, but had not apologized to her and her son, or expressed whether they were willing to compensate for the medical expenses and settle.

She said that she could understand and accept the school's handling, but she had always hoped to contact the other party's parents, hoping to apologize to her son and compensate for the medical expenses. She said that she had provided an email to send these demands to the other party, but so far, no response has been received.

Nearly a month has passed since the incident. In addition to calling the police and arguing with the school, she also wrote to the legislators hoping that the Ministry of Education would intervene in the investigation. However, she said that what she hoped most was that the two sides could reconcile and the other party's parents could educate their children and not encourage the atmosphere of bullying.

 

[XiaoJinLing]

Actually all the while got bullying de lor..

Last time my time was like emotional bullying... say bad things about you n ask all the friends ignore you, or "make things dufficult for u"... won't make us got any bruises so u can't complain... but now I think dun care liao...

 

[Medicated Oil]

monitoring, as usual

It is SUPPOSED to die down this week.
Dun we have enough SAGA to cover this issue ?

Jokes aside.
The bullying damage is getting more and more severe.
Some parents will take the matters in their own hand one day and give the bully a good whipping.

 

[Joseph12]

More headache for Chan Chun Sing... The school reported in the news is in northern part of SG. The mother seeking answers/explanation from the bully's parents, school & MP.

本地小学再传霸凌事件！小五生申诉遭同学拳打脚踢至头肿脸淤青​

本地再有学校发生疑似霸凌事件！北部一所小学五年级男生申诉在校内遭一名同学推倒和拳打脚踢，事后因头部肿痛和头晕作呕紧急入院，两周后再因脸颊出现淤青而再次求医。

男生的46岁单亲母亲陈女士受访时数次流露心痛之情，表示“心都碎到不知要如何形容了！”

称不想和对方说话而被打​

根据陈女士所述，事件发生在上个月8日下午1点多。当天校内小学五年级进行口试测验。她的11岁儿子就读五年级，当时正和同学在学校食堂等待口试。

据男生对母亲描述，自己在等待当儿，把手放在刚粉刷好的一堵墙壁上，不料却因此滑倒，于是便将事件传达给同学知道。不久后，被指是“校霸”的另一个男生走向他，一直追问他发生什么事，但陈女士的儿子不想和他说话，就没理睬他。

此时对方似乎“恼羞成怒”，以侮辱性的言语“问候”了陈女士的儿子。陈女士说儿子听了就告诉对方“不要这样和我说话！”，不料这句话更激怒对方，于是他将陈女士的儿子推倒在地，跟着就是一阵拳打脚踢。

最终，老师在接获通知后赶到，并把陈同学送去校务室敷冰。

据陈女士了解，对方虽然和她儿子同样就读五年级，但因为是外国学生，所以比同年级的同学多了一两岁，身材也比较高大。

回家后头晕想吐紧急入院​

在机械电子工程业工作的陈女士说，她当天接到儿子的电话，说自己在学校被人打了后还忍痛参加口试。她当下听儿子的语气，感觉他很累很痛，之后还接到校方来电通知。但因为忙着工作，自己并没追问详情，等到晚上回家才仔细问他，也才注意到他的头部红肿，而儿子也表示自己有些头晕想吐。

作为妈妈的她这下被吓得不轻。由于担心儿子脑震荡，她立刻请了弟弟载他们去竹脚妇幼医院紧急部门求医。

她和儿子当晚在病房过了一夜，隔天的检查结果是男生头部有轻微脑震荡。不过，由于10月10日还得参加考试，男生在9日当天便办理了出院手续。

警方证实接到报案​

在入院期间，陈女士也立刻报警，警方受询时也证实接到报案。

陈女士说，原本活泼的儿子经历这次的事件后，似乎出现一些创伤后遗症，喜欢上学的他甚至有几次表示不想再去学校。另外，兴趣班老师也注意到他的改变，上课时显得比较安静。

更令陈女士心痛的是，儿子常说脸颊疼痛。10月24日当天，原本没有明显伤势的他脸部突然浮现一片淤青。陈女士于是再把儿子送去医院照X光，所幸结果没发现严重伤势，但这两次入院的费用已累计了上千元。

盼对方家长担责和道歉​

陈女士在接受《8视界新闻网》访问时强调，事发当天及之后一直和校方保持联系，得知对方的父母曾向学校道歉，但唯独没向她和儿子道歉，或表示是否愿意赔偿医药费和解。

她说自己能理解和接受校方的处理，但她一直希望可以联系对方家长，希望能向儿子道歉，同时赔偿医药费。她表示，自己已经提供电邮将这些诉求发给对方，但至今依石沉大海，没收到任何回复。

事发至今近一个月，她除了报警、找校方理论，也找议员写信希望教育部介入调查。然而，她表示，自己最希望的是双方可以和解，对方家长能教育孩子，不要助长霸凌的风气。

《8视界新闻网》已致函向校方和教育部了解详情。

Ask MP for what
What's he going to say or do?

 

[Thoreldan]

The bully and their family should be repatriated after paying compensation to the victims family.

Scums

 

[Witch King]

CCS: must be victim fault. Give chance to the bullies. Victim handicap nevermind.

 

[Atrina_Boy]

MOE needs to resolved this issue once and for all before student beaten to death