[GPGT] Have men in SG wronged women so badly?

[坡坡小·舔狗]

According to the Singapore Department of Statistics, in 2020:

- Males accounted for 66.7% of suicides (444 out of 666 cases)
- Females accounted for 33.3% of suicides (222 out of 666 cases)

This trend is consistent with previous years, where males have generally accounted for a higher proportion of suicides in Singapore.

It's important to note that suicide can affect anyone regardless of gender, age, or background. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please reach out to:

- Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) hotline: 1800-221-4444
- Singapore Association for Mental Health (SAMH) hotline: 1800-283-7019

Remember, help is available, and there is support for those in need.

soon, there will be 2 suicides per day on average

 

[BradenHeat]

worked with folks who earn alot or similar, if their sales or tickets low, they would occassionally leak out their [ anger issues], and i dont mean resting bish face type, but Power triping, everything must correct and appease their menego.

and yes, these are men, with kids but either earning lower than their wives or didnt expect things and are in boomer age.

so no... it goes both sides.


end of the day, TFR drop is also indirectly due to the incapabilities or lack of true skills in the govt.

e.g just my recent reservist, all the dads all stressing about their kids not getting into Pri sch.... and some even though well off, hambin at the thought of buying another location jsut because their area , all low on slots

keep importing, keep surpressing local wages keep increasing tax..... you get the idea....

i dont think ive seen MORE jumpping cases than say pre 2000s [ apart from the economic crisis where people over leverage by borrowing more than they can pay .

 

[ShinnAsuka]

This is very hurting to say men are quite useless

We do not know the dynamics of the marriage. The top poster does bring in some sense in getting "immature" fathers what his responsibilities are as a father to a newborn.

The middle poster "agreed" 100% but her content is irrelevant in response, and it is kinda extreme, and maybe toxic. Genetically women have to rely on the husband, and it is the husband's responsibility to be there for her. Just because "society" now preaches gender equality doesn't nullify the genetic need. If the woman do not want to rely on the man, then don't get pregnant, don't get married, not even becoming a single mum. A child without paternal love will grow up not knowing how to love or attach securely.

 

[noname2016]

We do not know the dynamics of the marriage. The top poster does bring in some sense in getting "immature" fathers what his responsibilities are as a father to a newborn.

The middle poster "agreed" 100% but her content is irrelevant in response, and it is kinda extreme, and maybe toxic. Genetically women have to rely on the husband, and it is the husband's responsibility to be there for her. Just because "society" now preaches gender equality doesn't nullify the genetic need. If the woman do not want to rely on the man, then don't get pregnant, don't get married, not even becoming a single mum. A child without paternal love will grow up not knowing how to love or attach securely.

The first poster is making a relevant point, the wife was having post partum depression but he outright ignored her.

the middle poster sounds damn toxic, went and look at her post history. Kenna dumped by a guy and now always hating on men. Seems like a very hateful and entitled person. The ex-boyfriend really dodged a bullet.

 

[Weng123]

If that woman thinks men are useless, then she can build her own house, incinerate her own rubbish, build her own underground internet cables, go source for her own fuel, build her own road to drive on.

 

[ShinnAsuka]

The first poster is making a relevant point, the wife was having post partum depression.

the middle poster sounds toxic, went and look at her post history. Kenna dumped by a guy and now always hating on men. Seems like a very hateful and entitled person. The ex-boyfriend really dodged a bullet

Ya i went to look at her chat history and sense roughly the same, though never see the part on the dump.

 

[Weng123]

Nonsense. Men have higher suicide rate then women. POFMA me if I’m wrong. #redpill #makemengreatagain

The media, social support groups, women activists will ignore this fact and insist that only women are suicide victims and men are to blame for all their problems

 

[blankies]

this one I agree. I man.
The guy should not had went out esp during the first month.
Him not going may not had help to prevent the incident, but his absence is definitely felt

Now he can go out everynight watch soccer liao

 

[darkelf]

That's why never have kids. Always use protection.

Why would you want to bring sufferings to your own life? There is no joy in raising a new life, only the hard knocks of life and the cruelty of human behaviour awaits your child.

 

[bh2148]

Must be the 7th mn period, what did he brought back?

 

[Teyemittisi]

That's why never have kids. Always use protection.

Why would you want to bring sufferings to your own life? There is no joy in raising a new life, only the hard knocks of life and the cruelty of human behaviour awaits your child.

There are always tons of other reasons for women to get depressed and blame it on the men

 

[GreatPumpkin]

Men are trained from young to tank their own problems and settle everything themselves. For women on the other hand, there is less stigma in voicing their problems.

Not saying one is right or wrong, just that basic coding since childhood already got incompatibility.

 

[RuneArmour]

 

[syb1989]

The media, social support groups, women activists will ignore this fact and insist that only women are suicide victims and men are to blame for all their problems

Just curious, are there demographics on such activist group?

I am not surprised if they are divorced, single or married a hen packed pet dog.

Are they even advocating good marriages?

 

[mocax]

who ask them to choose 男人不坏女人不爱?
你自己选的 靠北做么?

 

[PaulLevesque]

She tried every single men in the world?

 

[GreatPumpkin]

who ask them to choose 男人不坏女人不爱?
你自己选的 靠北做么?

Imo choose a mama's boy even more cham.

 

[Weng123]

Just curious, are there demographics on such activist group?

I am not surprised if they are divorced, single or married a hen packed pet dog.

Are they even advocating good marriages?

Probably consist of all 3 types.

Doubt their main message is Advocating good marriage. Their main message is to push for female equality and empowerment in selective situations and blame men for being obstacles to that vision

 

[Prime 13]

As usual, typical misandry by women again.

Things go wrong ish blame men.
Establish that men are useless.
And demand men do more for women.

Honestly, thish kind of post ish make until i no fweel sorry for the women and baby.
Instead it reinforce my stand that men shld walk away from women.
Let women ownself fend for ownself.

 

[TrollAndOgres]

Postnatal depression is very real and not just "milking it" or being weak (cue "my mother / grandmother time never heard of this blablabla they very tough blabla").

A lot of times it is very dependent on the good support of the husband to pull them out of the depression.

Idk what went on with the post, but if like what that comment said, where the man went out for leisure until fricking 3 am with a newborn, then he is beyond useless. C'mon guys be more than just a sperm donor. One can always take initiative to do things even if one has useless n*pples... Eg, change diapers, wash bottles, bring wifey water and snacks if shes breastfeeding.. Many men are already hands on fathers, time to do better for the rest.