How do I ask

[turbocharge]

My BIL to contribute cny steamboat food?

Seems like “every year” he just comes and eats for free? When we ask if there is anything to add, he replied no.

 

[Roid Rage]

Host steamboat also need people to share cost…

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[hardwater]

what ingredients is he going to supply? asking so you don't double buy.

 

[sPacEmAn_sPiFf]

one year one time also need to be so calculative with family? and over what, steamboat ingredients?

 

[turbocharge]

what ingredients is he going to supply? asking so you don't double buy.

Whatever we buy i remember he dont eat these and that.

 

[CrucifyMyLove]

Dun do steamboat lor

 

[Thoreldan]

Who exactly?

Wife's brother?

Or your sister's husband ?

 

[EDMW-Hates-Me]

Steamboat at home also need to be so calculative?

Tell them this year no money to host. See if he will host or sponsor.

Or use ingredients you are willing to tank yourself.

 

[sk0065]

ask them bring yu sheng

or 1 can abalone to top up

 

[turbocharge]

Steamboat at home also need to be so calculative?

Don't host lor. If they ask why, say no money. See if they will host or sponsor.

Or use ingredients you are willing to tank yourself.

Because they are sooo used to it... Just eat n empty handed....

 

[amazingone]

My BIL to contribute cny steamboat food?

Seems like “every year” he just comes and eats for free? When we ask if there is anything to add, he replied no.

simply don't host steamboat and eat outside, can easily ask him to chip in

 

[Zorroh]

For this years steamboat, you just provide tofu and some vegetables?

 

[turbocharge]

Steamboat at home also need to be so calculative?

Tell them this year no money to host. See if he will host or sponsor.

Or use ingredients you are willing to tank yourself.

1. Not calculative am teaching them to be “auto” even they were married till have kids still the same.
2. Ask them to host they will come all sort of excuses cannot make dirty the place

 

[menthol28]

Because they are sooo used to it... Just eat n empty handed....

Then dun be a ***** and just voice out to your sister to contribute. Hate those kinds of ppl wanna act generous but quietly bitching around about ppl not paying. Anyway CNY dinner 1 yr host 1 time, usually the host will settle

 

[FORSTA]

no need to 计较 so much la
some ppl no matter how u say them they also wont change de

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

1. Not calculative am teaching them to be “auto” even they were married till have kids still the same.
2. Ask them to host they will come all sort of excuses cannot make dirty the place

Either you do and upfront say this year split cost or you don't do.

Don't do and complain and don't dare say.

 

[dushensiao]

like wedding ma, chiu invite then don't expect to cover.

If can cover ish a bonus. Arbo just stop hosting lor.

Some people is buey paiseh .

 

[JonWeak]

My BIL to contribute cny steamboat food?

Seems like “every year” he just comes and eats for free? When we ask if there is anything to add, he replied no.

Don't invite better lah. You the host right? Or you just tell everyone to contribute or go HDL lah

 

[fandango]

My BIL to contribute cny steamboat food?

Seems like “every year” he just comes and eats for free? When we ask if there is anything to add, he replied no.

Your sister chio or not?

 

[crandfs]

Just tell him what you want him to bring lah