How to know which girl to choose for marriage?

[Laguna123]

If they interested in you why would drop you off?

 

[Elfblade]

oh well, her loss to miss a good catch.

Thank you Sir! I told the story to my current partner and she laughed, saying she might not have met me if my previous dates were successful!

 

[Anjumara123]

Say online you've met 3 different girls. And while exploring they may all get jealous and all may just drop off at once. How then to choose which to marry and which to drop?

1. The one that makes u hard when u see her pic, keep as fwb.
2. The one that does not make u hard but shes nice to talk to, keep as a friend.
3. The one that gets you hard when u think about her personality, marry that girl.

 

[Kaylin]

Apparently, she told me she will post these questions to her Online Dating candidates wor.

1. My answer quite simple and turnoff. told her I am earning market rate or slightly higher for same position.
2. BMW for transport, her eyes lighten up for a moment, but then I sheepishly told her it stand for BUS->MRT->WALK. Can tell she cannot take it well with the disappointment in her eyes.
3. Told her I am still saving up for retirement but may have to work past 55 and into 65.

Can see she became more quiet and macam can't wait to finish her food and leave.

haha looks like u took her for a ride but not in yr car

 

[JustForFun]

Are you not local? Have to pay for the food first before eating unless you go to a Tze char stall at the coffeeshop.

Then zi char stall lor. Must be food in non Aircon environment and pay after makan.

 

[Elfblade]

if i am in your situation, i will tell her i am a CEO, have a few cars and today i am driving this convertible, and i have a few condos. When her interest is triggered, then i will say bye bye.

I am quite down to earth and not the type to 吹大炮，and my purpose in CMB is to meet the potential partner. It takes 2 hands to clap, if I cannot meet their expectations, then I just have to move on until I find the right one.

She is really quite pretty with a slim body OL type la, I am sure she has her market value and will find the one that can meet all her criteria, that person is just NOT ME.

 

[tExtra]

The first one to say, “I will merry you.”

 

[Kaylin]

Then zi char stall lor. Must be food in non Aircon environment and pay after makan.

then i ask u lor. if im the girl i tell u "oh its ok i will pay for both of us." whats yr next step?

 

[Anjumara123]

then i ask u lor. if im the girl i tell u "oh its ok i will pay for both of us." whats yr next step?

I will say "Xie2, thanks for dinner. Jin ho jiak"

 

[deathan9el]

give them a set of questions to test their honesty

 

[Kaylin]

I will say "Xie2, thanks for dinner. Jin ho jiak"

then u lose liao, u lost the game b4 it even began

 

[Elfblade]

haha looks like u took her for a ride but not in yr car

Haha, not really also la, my approach is the direct type. At the start of any date I will let the lady know that no hard feelings if really not up to each other's expectations, 好来好散。

9 out of 10 ladies I met, buay gum one I will still pay for the meal and send them home. Ppl also sacrificed their precious time to have dinner with me, I must at least do the minimum gentlemen Thingy.

 

[JustForFun]

then i ask u lor. if im the girl i tell u "oh its ok i will pay for both of us." whats yr next step?

Different people different responses according to different events

 

[Kaylin]

Different people different responses according to different events

but u wanted the girl to treat coz u wanna see whether shes a 捞女 right? so if i treat u what would yr response be?

 

[Elfblade]

then i ask u lor. if im the girl i tell u "oh its ok i will pay for both of us." whats yr next step?

This one tick one of my criteria, will have 后续。

 

[Sen Sen]

Dun choose dinobu can liao

 

[Anjumara123]

Haha, not really also la, my approach is the direct type. At the start of any date I will let the lady know that no hard feelings if really not up to each other's expectations, 好来好散。

9 out of 10 ladies I met, buay gum one I will still pay for the meal and send them home. Ppl also sacrificed their precious time to have dinner with me, I must at least do the minimum gentlemen Thingy.

Buay gum or not, the only time i refused to pay for the dinner was when this girl was 30 mins late. She still got the cheek to order dessert knn.

 

[Elfblade]

Buay gum or not, the only time i refused to pay for the dinner was when this girl was 30 mins late. She still got the cheek to order dessert knn.

Actually, I will find out the reason why she was late 1st. If it's due to last min work or OT, I think I can accept the reason. If she spend that 30 mins to put on make up for you means she is trying to give you a good 1st impression too right?

 

[Elfblade]

Dun choose dinobu can liao

I can only say 萝卜青菜，给有所爱。

 

[Polar bear 16]

Say online you've met 3 different girls. And while exploring they may all get jealous and all may just drop off at once. How then to choose which to marry and which to drop?

The one who will give you the least headache and the most support.
Lust and Looks can be bought. Peace and Blissful family is priceless.