How to spot a gold digger during dating

[mryang]

Method for loaded EDMWer bbfa can use 裸条 strategy

 

[FireEmblem]

Just tell her in a few week time you will be declare bankrupt see if she will ghost you or run road anot.

This one non gold digger girl will also dump you. You bankrupt is your own fault

 

[Encouragesome1]

Why this thread in edmw? As if the bbfa here got gold for them to dig.

At most dig your 2 room bto in Yishun/woodlands and your gst/cdc voucher. Still got what for them to dig?

Our precious time , energy , talents, heart and our dignity hokay

 

[Joseph12]

Why this thread in edmw? As if the bbfa here got gold for them to dig.

At most dig your 2 room bto in Yishun/woodlands and your gst/cdc voucher. Still got what for them to dig?

Nah
Can always score a $500 plus meal
Can she afford it?
Sure
But she's "entitled" to it cos it's dating

And the poor saps will pay cos they think it's a chance or means door is open etc

But they and their parents don't understand things have changed since from the past Especially woman's mindset
Even a $1000 meal won't let you score

 

[MoeLanYong]

Dog dog nv picnic before when got rain w thunder n quite not so little ponding ☔️ ? Bbfa did w bff and we and her dog literally scrambled to shelter and other 5-9 bbfa go n huddle w us

99/100 not romantic
🫢Heng we not intending for any romantic outing also

Waa. Win liao lor

Go romantic outing with Salty Dog and never invite me

 

[saltydog]

Dog dog nv picnic before when got rain w thunder n quite not so little ponding ☔️ ? Bbfa did w bff and we and her dog literally scrambled to shelter and other 5-9 bbfa go n huddle w us

99/100 not romantic
🫢Heng we not intending for any romantic outing also

muz piknik wib 2 opp seks den the guy hug the ger ger say moi ish the roof. but ish true moi neh piknik before

 

[eflash]

When you told her, your family buried a chest of gold in your garden and she happily bring a shovel and barrel to your house and start digging your garden...

There... Gold digger spotted!

 

[tanbrave]

How to spot a gold digger during dating

Meta AI: To spot a gold digger during dating, look out for these potential red flags:

1. *Excessive interest in your finances*: They ask about your income, assets, or spending habits early on.

2. *Materialism*: They frequently discuss or flaunt luxury brands, wealth, or status symbols.

3. *Lack of genuine interest*: They show little interest in your hobbies, passions, or personal growth.

4. *High maintenance*: They expect expensive dates, gifts, or favors without reciprocating.

5. *Flattery and charm*: They excessively compliment or charm you, potentially to manipulate.

6. *Evasiveness or secrecy*: They avoid discussing their own finances, job, or personal life.

7. *Dependence on you*: They rely heavily on you for financial support or decisions.

8. *Disrespect for boundaries*: They pressure you for money or gifts, disregarding your comfort level.

9. *Inconsistencies*: Their words and actions don't align, or they contradict themselves.

10. *Gut feeling*: Trust your instincts if you sense they're more interested in your wallet than you.

Remember, these signs alone don't confirm someone is a gold digger. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and prioritize mutual respect and trust in your relationship.

11.Brought along mining pan like gold prospector in WW West.Claims it for sun protection UV etc delicate complexion,don't believe.

 

[noname2016]

I dont even mind paying if it for my own lust.

When I openly tell her I am asking her out with the sole purpose of making sure she ish alright

And yet she wants to make use of the occasion to order the most expensive item in the menu

How will you feel, if it were you?

I’m ok. If I ask a girl out (assuming is a close platonic friend) for the sole purpose of making sure she’s ok (sounds like the person in trouble or depressed) then I’m fine to pay whatever she wants. But I will choose the restaurant, so even if most expensive it will still be within my budget.

but disclaimer that this is only for really close friends. If it’s someone I’m meeting for the first time etc, then I will think this person is really thick skinned and write him/her off

 

[mryang]

Thread 'How to identify a freeloader during dating' https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/how-to-identify-a-freeloader-during-dating.7045183/

Thread 'How to spot narcissists girl during a date' https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/how-to-spot-narcissists-girl-during-a-date.7045189/

 

[mryang]

I did it not once. Not twice. 3 times in total.

Then after sensing she is fine, I went ghost mode.

I am not interested in her. Was never. And have no more reason to continue.

Later she repaid me by openly insulting me and my religion.

What will you have done?

In between got any story within?

 

[jasvonvios]

After she find out u are edmwer earning 20k per month, will keep asking u to shoot inside!

 

[Encouragesome1]

Waa. Win liao lor

Go romantic outing with Salty Dog and never invite me

Hello it’s girl go w me hor,

 

[mryang]

In the context of dating and relationships, "裸条" refers to a situation where one partner provides financial support or loans to the other without any explicit agreement or expectation of repayment. This can create an unequal power dynamic and may lead to feelings of obligation, resentment, or even manipulation.

 

[Joseph12]

I dont even mind paying if it for my own lust.

When I openly tell her I am asking her out with the sole purpose of making sure she ish alright

And yet she wants to make use of the occasion to order the most expensive item in the menu

How will you feel, if it were you?

Seems like you're talking about some body specific....

 

[Encouragesome1]

muz piknik wib 2 opp seks den the guy hug the ger ger say moi ish the roof. but ish true moi neh piknik before

Neh mind la , not fun de .. u need to mk sure weather ok then can
Any wind blow or grass move need to quick hand quick leg hide into shelter .. mafan level slightly less than bbq only nia

 

[Encouragesome1]

In the context of dating and relationships, "裸条" refers to a situation where one partner provides financial support or loans to the other without any explicit agreement or expectation of repayment. This can create an unequal power dynamic and may lead to feelings of obligation, resentment, or even manipulation.

Not encouraged unless it’s old h&w

 

[Ubi-Warrior]

whats with all this type of AI Q's today?


App Time!!!

 

[itopedo]

Telling u they like branded stuffs, spent on travelling and nice food atas restaurants… u have to reflect if u can afford her lifestyle…

 

[Aunt Dino]

Dog dog nv picnic before when got rain w thunder n quite not so little ponding ☔️ ? Bbfa did w bff and we and her dog literally scrambled to shelter and other 5-9 bbfa go n huddle w us

99/100 not romantic
🫢Heng we not intending for any romantic outing also

Then where to picnic with shelter?