is it normal for male to be mellow?

[nubitol]

like feeling sad, self repress, low mood, no self confidence, suicidal?

what is your thought? have any friends like that?

 

[sPacEmAn_sPiFf]

yes i am marsh mellow man

 

[Plow98]

When in the presence of your Mommy.
Be absolutely 'mellow'.

 

[rayzhon]

like feeling sad, self repress, low mood, no self confidence, suicidal?

what is your thought? have any friends like that?

U ok lotibun?

 

[nubitol]

most people think that male should be strong, strong self respect, tough, confident

 

[tankgunner]

like feeling sad, self repress, low mood, no self confidence, suicidal?

what is your thought? have any friends like that?

Why you feeling this way?

 

[Resonance29]

why specifically male?

 

[jdrevolutionary23]

like feeling sad, self repress, low mood, no self confidence, suicidal?

what is your thought? have any friends like that?

Nao is 2022, not 1982. Mental health issues affect everyone, be they female or male

 

[KcSpider]

Today see a lot of "depressed" posts, is it because Christmas just over and CNY coming....

Yes actually a lot of people (not just guys) feel alone, during big festivals feel even more alone.

Guys like to hide their feelings in real life but then will come to internet forum to vent.

Please reach out for help.

Mental Well-being
- Fei Yue’s Online Counselling Service
- Institute of Mental Health’s Mental Health Helpline (6389-2222)
- Samaritans of Singapore (1800-221-4444) or 1767
- Silver Ribbon Singapore (6385-3714)

Counselling
- TOUCHline (Counselling) – 1800 377 2252

 

[nubitol]

U ok lotibun?

I am okay

just trying to figure out how society actually works. their opinions on self repressing male, low confident, or unloved

 

[Resonance29]

most people think that male should be strong, strong self respect, tough, confident

You are what you want to be. Why let society determine what you should be?

 

[evilsun]

like feeling sad, self repress, low mood, no self confidence, suicidal?

what is your thought? have any friends like that?

Those trait normally fall on short guys.

Forever get pick on by height in which they can't change.

 

[sTiCkY]

stop eating so much

 

[PikaPika33]

suicidal no

go seek help

 

[nubitol]

why specifically male?

this is more prevalence here
in Singapore all males must do NS, must be tough physically or at least mentally

so when the society have a repressed male, what is the common view on them?

 

[nubitol]

Nao is 2022, not 1982. Mental health issues affect everyone, be they female or male

yes it affects everyone, but how the society perceive them?

is it being weak, bullied, or defective?

 

[Cecamaster]

You are what you want to be. Why let society determine what you should be?

That's what crininals tell themselves too....

 

[rayzhon]

I am okay

just trying to figure out how society actually works. their opinions on self repressing male, low confident, or unloved

Most of these are caused by caring too much about what people think and say about u. The moment u heck care and stop comparing with people, should be fine le bah. Recently I have been going around telling people I 倒垃圾 and 做清洁工 one.

 

[-Hera-]

CNY coming moi feel jin depressed cos need to gib out angbao...

 

[ZhuMingQiang]

MTF coming out with nasty VDS restrictions after 14th Jan, 14th Feb, etc........