Life was great at 18 with many things to look forward to. Late 30s nothing materialised.

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And nothing to looking forward to anymore.

At 18 look forward to ord, look forward to starting uni education, look forward to finding a gf, looking forward to graduation, a good job, wife, a bto. Even simple things like looking forward to booking out to play chess.

At late 30s almost 2 decades later, many of the above failed to materalised, except barely graduating with a degree.

Have even lost the mojo to play any chess.

At late 30s, suddenly felt that everyday is a drain, with nothing to look forward to anymore. The aspirations at 18 have evaporated.

Every day just living one day at a time, as if waiting for the day to meet my maker. I don't feel suicidal, but I don't feel like there is anything to look forward to anymore.

who here feels the same?
:(
 

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I remember when i was 17, i tell myself i will make a million when i reach 30.
 

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at 18 i have nothing to look forward to no friends or hobbies or enjoyment in life
 

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same.
we need some changes!

the normal road is not for some of us. maybe we are predestined to blossom in our late years. with 1 leg in grave. :D
 

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same.
we need some changes!

the normal road is not for some of us. maybe we are predestined to blossom in our late years. with 1 leg in grave. :D

how to bloom when the flower is already withered
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bro u use what platform to play chess? I use lichess... i send you a link to play aimai? but i play 3minute blitz, ok for you?

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Wah ts

You hit the spot ! I am sure a lot of ppl feeling similar
thank you
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bro u use what platform to play chess? I use lichess... i send you a link to play aimai? but i play 3minute blitz, ok for you?

Posted from PCWX using Redmi K20 Pro

play on yahoo games
now no more yahoo games
and i no more mojo to play any chess
:(
 

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And nothing to looking forward to anymore.

At 18 look forward to ord, look forward to starting uni education, look forward to finding a gf, looking forward to graduation, a good job, wife, a bto. Even simple things like looking forward to booking out to play chess.

At late 30s almost 2 decades later, many of the above failed to materalised, except barely graduating with a degree.

Have even lost the mojo to play any chess.

At late 30s, suddenly felt that everyday is a drain, with nothing to look forward to anymore. The aspirations at 18 have evaporated.

Every day just living one day at a time, as if waiting for the day to meet my maker. I don't feel suicidal, but I don't feel like there is anything to look forward to anymore.

who here feels the same?
:(

Can pick up a hobby to look into. Like collection figurines, haha then you need to wait for launch dates, order it and shipping here. This is "something" to look forward to.
But costs money lah!

Or sports, usually low cost la, unless go pak golf.

Or collecting and drinking whiskey, see there is thread here on whiskey.Those fine gentlemen enjoying it.
 

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is it because of the depressing environment that may have affected ur mood? go for overseas travel once it’s possible to do so, it may help :)
 

zzzzzzz

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Cos thing remain same no improve
maybe you are right
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Can pick up a hobby to look into. Like collection figurines, haha then you need to wait for launch dates, order it and shipping here. This is "something" to look forward to.
But costs money lah!

Or sports, usually low cost la, unless go pak golf.

Or collecting and drinking whiskey, see there is thread here on whiskey.Those fine gentlemen enjoying it.

got no special interests or any hobby
:(
 
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