Never ever mix copper and aluminium together. This will cost galvanic corosion. Hence most custom water cooling parts are made of brass, copper, nickel plated, POM, Glass, Silver and Acetal materials. Radiators that said to have aluminium fins are fine.
Loop order does not matter. Cause the water travels in the loop is fast, till the extent that the water inside will reach equilibrium. The only order that must be fixed is reservoir MUST be connected to a pump to feed in water. Else it will not work.
Invest in fittings, fittings are the one most of the time can cause a leak. Poor fittings usually cause fittings to be either loose or bad o-ring can tear easily.
Coolant, this is purely your choice. But try to avoid coolants such as Primochill Vue and Mayhems Aurora. This two coolants look nice. But to clean it is not easy. They do cause gunk in water blocks and eventually the temperatures will rise from time to time. These coolant caused a lot of issues to many users, do a quick search and you will know, including youtube. Generally you wanna try normal coloured coolant. Mayhems is much more fun to create colours. Such as white pastel coolant mixed with coloured dyes. They have plenty to choose. Do note that coloured coolant can cause your tubes and any translucent reservoir/acrylic parts/petg tubes/flexible tubes to be stain over a period of time. The only way to prevent this is if you use a lot of glass components. Like glass tubes, glass reservoir etc. If you intend to use only distilled water only, please buy some silver kill coil. This is best way to prevent your water from any fungus growth. However if you choose to buy Mayhems coolant, it is already included. Or rather other brands coolant, do check if there is biocide or silver coil added.
Radiator thickness does not matter much over length. So try to fit in the longest radiator size if possible. Thickness comes in (if permits) second. Meaning to say a 240mm no matter how thin or thick would not beat a 360mm thin or thick.
Never mix metrics and inches for tube sizes and fittings. So do not purposely convert inches to mm and find the fittings that has metric measurement. Vice versa.
Be ready to fork out a lot at start. But the next build or yearly maintenance needed every year, the cost will be reduced if you just intend to do nothing to the loop or do minor changes to the loop.
Lastly the brands recommended for per component needed....
Cpu blocks - Aquacomputer, EKWB, Alphacool, Heatkiller
Gpu blocks - Aquacomputer, EKWB, Bitspower, Heatkiller, Phanteks
Reservoir - Aquacomputer, EKWB, Bitspower, Hestkiller, Singularity computers, Alphacool
Radiators - Hardwarelabs, Alphacool, EKWB (PE/CE Edition), Magicool, XSPC
Pump - Any d5 brand, cause they are the same OEM
Tubes - Flex tubes wth plasticizer free cheap and great Mayhems flexible tubes, Petg tubes best used with the brand fittings.
Fittings - Bitspower, Monsoon, Barrow, Bykski, Alphacool
Coolant - Mayhems, Aquacomputer, EKWB, Heatkiller