Loveless relationship/marriage

[grapefruit]

Am stuck in a 20 years relationship with zero physical intimacy since beginning, my spouse doesn’t seem to think it’s an issue and never bring up the topic of divorce throughout these years.

i am reaching my limit and wanted to leave. We have nothing in common, spend weekends in silence and he earns much lesser than i do.

Based on legal advice, think WC only protect poor women, if you have more matrimonial assets than your spouse, you may have to part with 50% of your assets and if he takes over the house, he will only need to return the portion of my CPR used for housing, nothing more. Basically I have to “buy” myself out of it and become homeless.

how do i break the news to him that it’s time to end it and make him realise that he has been very unfair to me?

 

[buttbERry]

some times stay as bbfa is better

 

[EDMW-Hates-Me]

Why did you marry him in the first place? Any kids? Just tell him the first two paragraphs, except he earns lesser.

 

[Sumimasen]

some times stay as bbfa is better

Chiu only has this line in all threads hor

 

[mewmew]

ts merry @PoloBoiBoi ?

 

[buttbERry]

Chiu only has this line in all threads hor

that is so inaccurate

 

[treeskull]

Being BBFA is not as bad as it seems when u don’t have a good marriage

 

[glarerder]

Am stuck in a 20 years relationship with zero physical intimacy since beginning, my spouse doesn’t seem to think it’s an issue and never bring up the topic of divorce throughout these years.

i am reaching my limit and wanted to leave. We have nothing in common, spend weekends in silence and he earns much lesser than i do.

Based on legal advice, think WC only protect poor women, if you have more matrimonial assets than your spouse, you may have to part with 50% of your assets and if he takes over the house, he will only need to return the portion of my CPR used for housing, nothing more. Basically I have to “buy” myself out of it and become homeless.

how do i break the news to him that it’s time to end it and make him realise that he has been very unfair to me?

Your limit is so long. Moi <1 week no intimacy moi walk away riao.

 

[Balian]

many couples got married without even having honest and open conversations about sex, money, interest and lifestyle beforehand

if you think its beyond any discussion just give it to him straight

20 years already... its time to have an honest conversation

 

[Sumimasen]

So after 20yrs what TS want? A new bf a new spouse.. now should be not young liao. Maybe stay single after divorce also not bad than tie in the loveless marriage.

 

[randyap]

Am stuck in a 20 years relationship with zero physical intimacy since beginning, my spouse doesn’t seem to think it’s an issue and never bring up the topic of divorce throughout these years.

i am reaching my limit and wanted to leave. We have nothing in common, spend weekends in silence and he earns much lesser than i do.

Based on legal advice, think WC only protect poor women, if you have more matrimonial assets than your spouse, you may have to part with 50% of your assets and if he takes over the house, he will only need to return the portion of my CPR used for housing, nothing more. Basically I have to “buy” myself out of it and become homeless.

how do i break the news to him that it’s time to end it and make him realise that he has been very unfair to me?

The actual trigger: Who's the new guy?

 

[wongminmin]

sounds like TS found new happiness after 20 years.....

 

[articland05]

wow...2002 acct. marry for 20yrs
TS smelly smelly should be 40+ liao

 

[articland05]

We have nothing in common

I'm curious.
so what had changed after marriage?
surely before that you guys are attracted to each other in some ways

 

[articland05]

Being BBFA is not as bad as it seems when u don’t have a good marriage

of course....same goes for everything in life.
as long as things go fine, ppl are ok....whether it is marriage, rs, job or just anything in general

 

[ramlee]

Is your husband ghey? Did he merry you out of societal pressure?

 

[grapefruit]

Why did you marry him in the first place? Any kids? Just tell him the first two paragraphs, except he earns lesser.

Before marriage still ok but just after he kenna slipped disc and we totally stopped, he never bother to do anything about it, I thought it was shallow of me to leave because of that but 20 years is too long and the love is gone.

living like housemates and siblings now, feels very awkward sometimes

 

[articland05]

Before marriage still ok but just after he kenna slipped disc and we totally stopped, he never bother to do anything about it, I thought it was shallow of me to leave because of that but 20 years is too long and the love is gone.

living like housemates and siblings now, feels very awkward sometimes

oh...liddat cant blame him totally.
after slipped disc kkj not working liao?
could be a man's pride issue

 

[grapefruit]

So after 20yrs what TS want? A new bf a new spouse.. now should be not young liao. Maybe stay single after divorce also not bad than tie in the loveless marriage.

To stay single and maybe happier? Cos he is MCP, everything also must control, including my choice of work desk at home. He insisted must get same as his even though i don’t need adjustable desk and had a huge fight over such stupid thungs.

 

[articland05]

To stay single and maybe happier? Cos he is MCP, everything also must control, including my choice of work desk at home. He insisted must get same as his even though i don’t need adjustable desk and had a huge fight over such stupid thungs.

MCP if you bring up divorce what kind of reaction would you expect?
I think he may act violently... since MCP