Haha some men here ever mentioned that you can eat outside but dont bring the cow home! And no need to let the children know.
What kind of logic! When they are old, dont expect their kiddos to respect them and keep in touch with them. Marriage also gone.
If the marriage breaks down, go see a marriage counsellor. Marriage is hard work! Both parties have to work on it. If really cannot salvage, divorce and then go your own ways.
The initial fling with a 3rd party is very exciting just like when you first court your wife. When the feelings subside, you are back to square one.
My spouse and I used to patronise this small eatery run by a husband and wife team. One day, the man came to us and told us his wife had eloped and left the family! The man brought up his kiddos alone.
Fast forward, we bumped into him. His kiddos are adults now. Ex wife will occasionally whatsapp the kiddos but her kiddos couldnt be bothered to reply her. Ex wife has 2 young kiddos with new man and she has to start bringing up her children all over again. A mutual friend said she sort of regretted her action because after the initial romance with new man dies off, she is back to facing the mundane of life again - work, bring up her young kids, do housework etc. No different from her first marriage!
