My gf calls me ugly and other names and told me it was her love language and how she shows affection.

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amransan

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She told me it was for fun and that she doesnt really mean it but at the same time it really hurts my feelings. We have been together for more than a year now. I told her to stop calling me names but she insisted in saying that its no fun if she doesnt do so plus telling me that the rs is already not fun at all. Its kinda demotivating me at times at work and the fact that i always feel down when we met and she started calling me names. Whenever we fight or had an argument, she would always swear and call me even more worse names like cnt and saying im childish etc. Me being the nicer person wouldnt even dare to swear at her cause i know how sensitive she will be if i do so. What should i do?
imagine now bf gf time already show no respect to u and i cant imagine after u married her.

well the good news is u already know her character and ask yourself do u want to life with her for the rest of your life? if u dont mind she calls u names then ok lah.

but after u married and one day u divorce WP will make sure u lose everything until your pants drop by then too late.
 

jack-320

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I think TS really is CSB

got girlfriend, everyday is love love each other

even if she were to exhibit such behavior TS will close one eye and stay in the relationship
这个问题不是大问题,分手后找不到女朋友才是大问题
 

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Google NPD narcissistic personality disorder. Check her against the 7-9 signs.
Google Gaslighting.
Check your own mental health. No one can endure a NPD partner for long. Been there, done that.
Narcissistic personality disorder - Wikipedia
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dunno anything about mental illness la, but being brought up by people like these, you will 100% inherit certain traits like these but don't fall into the spectrum

so the symptoms and definition isn't a 1 glove fits all thing.


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Show her affection back by calling her Airport, Cheesy Bye, Vain, Dead Fish, Black Not Pink, Vulgar etc.
 

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She told me it was for fun and that she doesnt really mean it but at the same time it really hurts my feelings. We have been together for more than a year now. I told her to stop calling me names but she insisted in saying that its no fun if she doesnt do so plus telling me that the rs is already not fun at all. Its kinda demotivating me at times at work and the fact that i always feel down when we met and she started calling me names. Whenever we fight or had an argument, she would always swear and call me even more worse names like cnt and saying im childish etc. Me being the nicer person wouldnt even dare to swear at her cause i know how sensitive she will be if i do so. What should i do?

Break up lo...
No point continuing relationship with a toxic person.
 

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this is csb.. previously claimed she had 3 kids with 1 on the way and her husband was cheating with her..
 
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