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It's a 50/50 bah. Some people, particularly mothers, believe that their child is a blessing.

Others not so much.
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I don't think all mothers are qualified and feel that children is a blessing tbh. So it depends one's ability to cope etc. Finance is the biggest factor. When rich sure auto more mood. When need struggle with livelihood, the child ask 1 more qn also tio gan. Which is why many poor ses parents won't be able to raise the child well. In before my comment very discriminating or snobbish. But is true. When poor life sucks. Compare to damn poor to bad health w money the latter still better in my opinion.
 
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IAmChiobu12M said:
I don't think all mothers are qualified and feel that children is a blessing tbh. So it depends one's ability to cope etc. Finance is the biggest factor. When rich sure auto more mood. When need struggle with livelihood, the child ask 1 more qn also tio gan. Which is why many poor ses parents won't be able to raise the child well. In before my comment very discriminating or snobbish. But is true. When poor life sucks. Compare to damn poor to bad health w money the latter still better in my opinion.
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Ya my parents used my brother and me as a tool to erase the mistakes of their past.

In other words, if you buay gan, don't give birth and blame everything on your kids.
 
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Ya my parents used my brother and me as a tool to erase the mistakes of their past.

In other words, if you buay gan, don't give birth and blame everything on your kids.
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That why I said before in earlier post here that shld have a national test to take before having kids lol. So many unprepared people just decide to anyhow breed without checking if they themselves are whole or at least not too broken. One shld nv breed if mentally n financially not ready or mature. When I say that I don't mean u need to have 1m in ur bank account or an IQ of 200. But at least enough to sustain a decent life. At least not struggling to buy milk powder pay for bills etc. And mentally not worn out or in bad toxic marriage n thinking of using the kid to tie ur husband down. The above are shxt things she did n still can abuse me. Everytime think of it damn angry.
 
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IAmChiobu12M said:
That why I said before in earlier post here that shld have a national test to take before having kids lol. So many unprepared people just decide to anyhow breed without checking if they themselves are whole or at least not too broken. One shld nv breed if mentally n financially not ready or mature. When I say that I don't mean u need to have 1m in ur bank account or an IQ of 200. But at least enough to sustain a decent life. At least not struggling to buy milk powder pay for bills etc. And mentally not worn out or in bad toxic marriage n thinking of using the kid to tie ur husband down. The above are shxt things she did n still can abuse me. Everytime think of it damn angry.
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Sorry to hear that. I think the boomer generation of parents are really horrible.

That being said, I am glad that my mother is all right. Hopefully she can be discharged by tomorrow.
 
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Wah damn bs.

Tdy total defense day. I was watching channel 8 news. Prestige sch host minsters come, all eat proper instant food w table chairs light n fans

Then neighborhood sch, off electricity for 1h no fan no light while having lessons lol.
 
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IAmChiobu12M said:
Wah damn bs.

Tdy total defense day. I was watching channel 8 news. Prestige sch host minsters come, all eat proper instant food w table chairs light n fans

Then neighborhood sch, off electricity for 1h no fan no light while having lessons lol.
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u still have faith in pap ?
 
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