Nett Worth

[reddevil0728]

Most wife only eat into your networth. 1 pax retire with 2m is definitely more than enough.

that 1 very stereotypical leh

 

[sohguanh]

Most wife only eat into your networth. 1 pax retire with 2m is definitely more than enough.

Why stop at wife? Factor in children and elderly parents too isn't it? Singles is best only got parents

 

[ygsub41]

Nett worth must include all assets less all liabilities
Assets must include house valuation, total cpf ( include portion used for housing) , cash, investment, insurance, gold bar, watches, Cars , etc
Liabilities must include all loans eg house loan car loan (cpf accrue interest not counted as it still belong to you)
After you work out the above, 1mil or below nett consider is today new poor ,
2mil to 3mil average
4mil to 5mil middle
5 mil to 10mil upper middle
10mil above then consider rich

 

[BBCWatcher]

that 1 very stereotypical leh

So sterotypical (and wrong) that I wonder whether the poster is ever going to have a wife with that way of "thinking."

Most working age women (63.4% at last report) in Singapore are members of the market labor force.

 

[reddevil0728]

Why stop at wife? Factor in children and elderly parents too isn't it? Singles is best only got parents

actually not too late to divorce, and i think it is possible to legally break off relationship between parents and children.

 

[reddevil0728]

So sterotypical that I wonder whether the poster is ever going to have a wife with that way of "thinking."

there are a lot of ppl out there who have unconscious bias without realising

 

[BBCWatcher]

there are a lot of ppl out there who have unconscious bias without realising

And some with conscious bias.

Only men earn wages? That's obviously absurd and wrong.

Only women are spendthrift? That's obviously absurd and wrong, too. Just to pick one example, according to the National Council on Problem Gambling a slight majority of men in Singapore gamble (53%, 2020 data). Women on average are much smarter. 37% of women in Singapore gamble (same year of data).

 

[reddevil0728]

And some with conscious bias.

and they will deny and might make ad hominem rebuttal

 

[sohguanh]

actually not too late to divorce, and i think it is possible to legally break off relationship between parents and children.

You dunno Spore WC is notorious? Go ask those men been through that. Even my reservist lawyer told me Spore WC is very obsolete it is quite unfair to men. That is why so many years so many suffering. Alimony is not cheap.

 

[reddevil0728]

You dunno Spore WC is notorious? Go ask those men been through that. Even my reservist lawyer told me Spore WC is very obsolete it is quite unfair to men. That is why so many years so many suffering. Alimony is not cheap.

yep am aware.

guess the mistake was being too infatuated and getting married in the first place.

 

[sohguanh]

yep am aware.

guess the mistake was being too infatuated and getting married in the first place.

That is why I have been posting in forum do think twice about marriage and then having kids. Don't be lured by one off monies from govt. I fall into their trap and now suffering in agony for years.

 

[DevilPlate]

Really depends on one's personal life experiences.

Have also heard horror stories about wife having affair and yet received alimony & custody of all 3 kids after divorced.

However that being said, there are probably more cases of horror abusive husbands.

A marriage really take alot of effort to maintain just like stock investment (need to DYODD) whahaha

 

[reddevil0728]

That is why I have been posting in forum do think twice about marriage and then having kids. Don't be lured by one off monies from govt. I fall into their trap and now suffering in agony for years.

i think is more than just money from government from getting married and having kids also. People do that for other more intimate reasons.

 

[reddevil0728]

Really depends on one's personal life experiences.

Have also heard horror stories about wife having affair and yet received alimony & custody of all 3 kids after divorced.

However that being said, there are probably more cases of horror of abusive husbands.

A marriage really take alot of effort to maintain just like stock investment (need to DYODD) whahaha

yea. takes more than just infatuation

 

[sohguanh]

i think is more than just money from government from getting married and having kids also. People do that for other more intimate reasons.

Some is responsibility some is run road don't feed child. They are many aplenty in Spore. Ask those doing social work in Spore will know the cases they are handling. Chase the runaway father, chase the divorced father for consistent payment of alimony etc.

 

[reddevil0728]

Some is responsibility some is run road don't feed child. They are many aplenty in Spore. Ask those doing social work in Spore will know the cases they are handling. Chase the runaway father, chase the divorced father for consistent payment of alimony etc.

Oh well. that's life i guess.

 

[hwmook]

So sterotypical (and wrong) that I wonder whether the poster is ever going to have a wife with that way of "thinking."

Most working age women (63.4% at last report) in Singapore are members of the market labor force.

I have been married for 8 years, you don't have to worry about it.

Working doesn't mean they save more. . Female earn lesser but they spend more so overall their networth are lower.
1 pax 1.7m, 2 pax 2.7m so which one is more?

 

[reddevil0728]

I have been married for 8 years, you don't have to worry about it.

Working doesn't mean they save more. . Female earn lesser but they spend more so overall their networth are lower.
1 pax 1.7m, 2 pax 2.7m so which one is more?

the point is too sweeping of a statement to generalise all female are like that.

 

[hwmook]

And some with conscious bias.

Only men earn wages? That's obviously absurd and wrong.

Only women are spendthrift? That's obviously absurd and wrong, too. Just to pick one example, according to the National Council on Problem Gambling a slight majority of men in Singapore gamble (53%, 2020 data). Women on average are much smarter. 37% of women in Singapore gamble (same year of data).

Come I clap for you, buying 4D, Toto make a big difference? Most people spend a few dollars on such activities, you think it make a big difference? You can't beat the ladies spending on LV, Gucci and facial, comestics etc. Go and ask around among colleagues and friends, I don't believe you can't find out easily.

 

[reddevil0728]

Come I clap for you, buying 4D, Toto make a big difference? Most people spend a few dollars on such activities, you think it make a big difference? You can't beat the ladies spending on LV, Gucci and facial, comestics etc. Go and ask around among colleagues and friends, I don't believe you can't find out easily.

regardless male of female. should avoid stereotypical views and generalisation.