Now grown up, ex-bullies open up on what drove their behaviour and wish they could turn back the clock

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niefeng80

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Should interview those gangster influencers.

They confirm tell you sad granny story that they were bullied as well.
 

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Bullies deserve to rot in hell or rot in jail - They should not be given second chances in life.

Society should condemn bullies, not protect bullies.

Not like that.

I think the adults in the system who condone such things and not do anythign should be the one going to jail or rot in hel.l
 

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Bullies deserve to rot in hell or rot in jail - They should not be given second chances in life.

Society should condemn bullies, not protect bullies.
Exactly.

Was builled myself, and that caused me not to start a family and have kids because I don't want to bring in life to this unkind world and have them suffer.
 
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I feel conflicted about reading articles like this. It is almost like sending this message to bullies

“It is ok to bully others when u are young. Just remember to stop when you grow up, liable to the laws of the country, and be a good person. We will sympathise and glorify you then.”

Make them almost like a hero.

How is this being fair and having sympathy to the victims of bullying? Aint we supposed to build a safe environment for our children to live and learn in? Isnt our focus be bullying-prevention in the first place?
 

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another agenda gao type of news….just to pacify victims and please society to justify and “accept” their behaviour
 

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unpopular opinion, but i always felt bullying was an essential part of growing up for kids.
learning how to manage and resolve conflict is one life skill that should be taught when young, even if the perpetrator may end up going home bleeding.
 

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Now grown up, ex-bullies open up on what drove their behaviour and wish they could turn back the clock​


Why do some children turn pain into cruelty, while others rise above it? Psychologists and reformed bullies unpack how early emotional wounds shape behaviour, and what it takes to effectively tackle the issue.

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/tod...-violence-schools-students-anger-pain-5408301
What lubbish. 160 media glorifying bullies again. Cane them then hang them all.
 

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Sounds like the bullies made their problem become someone else's problem. Mental health, poor family environment, the usual excuses.
 

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Now grown up, ex-bullies open up on what drove their behaviour and wish they could turn back the clock​


Why do some children turn pain into cruelty, while others rise above it? Psychologists and reformed bullies unpack how early emotional wounds shape behaviour, and what it takes to effectively tackle the issue.

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/tod...-violence-schools-students-anger-pain-5408301

quite rubbish article

most bullies enjoy what they did in the past and still continue to be bullies at work in the present
 
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