NS PES A Experience

[reddevil0728]

Omg this is so creepy eh, mom is that you ? Calm down guys, are yall low key spies or something cause all i wanted to do was ask about army omggg hahas

I think you are in denial. Maybe you need some experience to know how to stop being in denial.

 

[Helladammbella]

I think you are in denial. Maybe you need some experience to know how to stop being in denial.

Well i’m not just that i don’t want to think about it , hmm i’ll probably go overseas too maybe same country? I would have already grad by then so i can travel anywhere so if he have time maybe i can see him somewhere haha
You more kanchiong then me, just take it month by month see how it goes, if theres a will theres always a way

 

[reddevil0728]

Well i’m not just that i don’t want to think about it , hmm i’ll probably go overseas too maybe same country? I would have already grad by then so i can travel anywhere so if he have time maybe i can see him somewhere haha
You more kanchiong then me, just take it month by month see how it goes, if theres a will theres always a way

the person who’s asking about what’s going to happen in the future calling someone else kan cheong?

You take things month by month??? Then why you start this thread to ask?

Stop being in denial. My 2 cents.

 

[Helladammbella]

the person who’s asking about what’s going to happen in the future calling someone else kan cheong?

You take things month by month??? Then why you start this thread to ask?

Stop being in denial. My 2 cents.

I start the thread to ask because i have 0 idea about army ma, and everything happen super fast thats all nothing wrong what

I have already replied to your question, sooo if i’m in denial i wouldn’t have and i would have ignored it , righttt?? Calm down this not even a discussion about any celebrities in particular or any insulting drama going on but just an experience sharing then i know some information?

If you’re not happy being here then why are you in my forum of discussion?
I believe i have done nothing wrong because its just asking

 

[reddevil0728]

I start the thread to ask because i have 0 idea about army ma, and everything happen super fast thats all nothing wrong what

I have already replied to your question, sooo if i’m in denial i wouldn’t have and i would have ignored it , righttt?? Calm down this not even a discussion about any celebrities in particular or any insulting drama going on but just an experience sharing then i know some information?

If you’re not happy being here then why are you in my forum of discussion?
I believe i have done nothing wrong because its just asking

Sure, you can start a thread to ask about army... But you are accusing others of being kan cheong when you are the one who's asking about the future? That's strange.

You wouldn't have and you would have ignored it? I think a lot of times, people who are in denial don't realise that they are in denial. if you think you are not,

why don't answer fake_oranges question?

How would you feel if he is being punished and not allowed out of camp for one weekend?

Means he will be in camp for a full week and another 5 days?

don't say how that is irrelevant. You already said you dunno much about army, so people telling you that it is relevant. so just answer what he is asking.

this will be a true test of whether you are really in denial.

Maybe put it this way, you wouldn't hear me saying what you want to hear to let you continue to be in denial.

 

[Helladammbella]

Sure, you can start a thread to ask about army... But you are accusing others of being kan cheong when you are the one who's asking about the future? That's strange.

You wouldn't have and you would have ignored it? I think a lot of times, people who are in denial don't realise that they are in denial. if you think you are not,

why don't answer fake_oranges question?




don't say how that is irrelevant. You already said you dunno much about army, so people telling you that it is relevant. so just answer what he is asking.

this will be a true test of whether you are really in denial.

Maybe put it this way, you wouldn't hear me saying what you want to hear to let you continue to be in denial.

Okay i’m just asking in general about the army what he might be doing and what he might not be. I answered yours tho did you acknowledge that? I can answer his question too since you have been wanting it so badly

My reply to @ fake_oranges , well i’ll be very upset ofcourse, its normal to be but i guess i have already went through the 2 weeks confinment period so, i’ll just have to remember what i did that time and continue that routine till he comes back..

 

[reddevil0728]

Okay i’m just asking in general about the army what he might be doing and what he might not be. I answered yours tho did you acknowledge that? I can answer his question too since you have been wanting it so badly

My reply to @ fake_oranges , well i’ll be very upset ofcourse, its normal to be but i guess i have already went through the 2 weeks confinment period so, i’ll just have to remember what i did that time and continue that routine till he comes back..

Nobody say you can’t ask. The point I’m trying to make is, you asking about the future rather than finding out month by month and you asre saying people who reply you kan cheong? Pot calling the kettle black?

Doesn’t matter whether I acknowledge your reply to my question, that’s not the point. It’s also not the point about me wanting you to answer his question badly, not my loss if you don’t anyway. I think you failed to realise why I am pushing you to answer, and that’s so that you don’t avoid questions that you don’t like and continue to be in denial.

You actually did great with your answer. What we are trying to tell you is. expect the least, then you will be less disappointed.

If he is going overseas, at least you would have prepared yourself long before that. If he doesn’t, great!

Can you imagine we keep telling you he wouldn’t go, then he went? I thought you might do stupid stuff.

 

[fake_oranges]

My reply to @ fake_oranges , well i’ll be very upset ofcourse, its normal to be but i guess i have already went through the 2 weeks confinment period so, i’ll just have to remember what i did that time and continue that routine till he comes back..

he will feel worse too.. stuck in camp and cannot go out for another week

 

[Nuclear Boy]

Hey Bella, hate to burst your bubble but:

1. No matter what voc your bf ends up, as long as it is combat-related, he'll most definitely be away for a few weeks for overseas training. Just be mentally prepared for a longer period of him being away and possibly out of contact too.

2. If you can tahan his absence during the weekdays, if he kenna anything that'd keep him in during weekends, it's just the usual plus a few days only mah.

3. Since he's already done with BMT, he's most definitely gonna have time to msg you whenever he's free during his in-camp days. Without face-to-face, just gotta adapt to make do with text or photos right?

Besides, it is just 2 years (I know it is oft-repeated but still it is what it is). Blink of an eye, it's already over. Talk to him about your longing etc when you can meet him. Afterall, I'm sure he feels the same too so why not deal with it together? Most importantly, you still have to get on with your life properly even if apart. I'm sure you don't want to worry him too when he has lots to deal with.

Like you mentioned earlier on how NS relationships often fall apart, it is a good test of fortitude and maturity for both you and your bf. All the best!