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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?
 

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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?

You’re walking into a classic “low-trust, low-accountability” situation. The instinct to fix both quality and attitude is right—but the order and method matter a lot. If you push too hard too early (e.g., “everyone back to office now”), you’ll get resistance instead of buy-in.


Here’s a practical way to approach it that actually works in messy teams:




1. Don’t start by fixing—start by diagnosing


Even if the team has a reputation, assume you’re missing context.


In your first 2–3 weeks:


  • Do 1:1s with everyone (ask what’s working / not working)
  • Sit in on workflows, reviews, meetings
  • Look at actual outputs (not hearsay about “poor quality”)

Key questions:


  • Is the issue skill, motivation, unclear standards, or weak management?
  • Are they disengaged… or just unmanaged?

If you skip this step, you risk solving the wrong problem.




2. Set expectations early—but frame them as standards, not control​


You want to reset the bar without sounding like “new boss = crackdown.”


Instead of:


“This team’s quality is poor, we need to improve”

Try:


“Here’s what great looks like in this team going forward…”

Be very concrete:


  • What does “good work” look like?
  • What does “responsive” mean? (e.g., reply within X hours)
  • What does ownership look like?

People often underperform because expectations were never explicit.




3. Fix structure before attitude​


“Bad attitude” is often a symptom.


Put in:


  • Clear deliverables and deadlines
  • Visible tracking (kanban, weekly reviews, etc.)
  • Regular check-ins (not micromanaging—just consistent cadence)

Once structure is in place:


  • Slackers become visible
  • Performers feel recognized
  • Peer pressure starts working for you



4. On WFH vs office: yes, you can ask—but how you do it matters​


If you come in saying:


“You’ve all been sleeping at home, come back to office”

You’ll lose credibility immediately.


Instead, position it as a team reset + collaboration phase:


“As we reset how this team works, I’d like us to spend more time together initially—say 2–3 days in office—for the next couple of months. It’ll help us align faster, unblock issues, and raise quality. We can revisit once things stabilize.”

Why this works:


  • It’s temporary, not a permanent mandate
  • It’s tied to a purpose, not control
  • It signals you’re building something, not policing



5. Build buy-in through involvement, not announcements​


Instead of dictating everything:


  • Ask the team: “What’s getting in the way of doing great work?”
  • Co-create a few team norms (e.g., response times, review standards)

People support what they help create.




6. Deal with underperformance quietly, not publicly​


There will be a few people who are genuinely coasting.


Don’t try to “fix culture” broadly first—handle individuals:


  • Clear expectations
  • Direct feedback
  • Follow-through (this is where many managers fail)

If the worst 10–20% improves or exits, culture shifts fast.




7. Early wins matter more than big plans​


Pick 1–2 visible improvements:


  • Faster turnaround on something
  • Cleaner deliverables
  • Better stakeholder feedback

Then highlight it:


“This is the standard we’re aiming for”

Momentum beats speeches.




Bottom line on your specific question​


Yes—you can ask for 2–3 days in office.


But don’t make it about:


  • “WFH = laziness”

Make it about:


  • “We need tighter collaboration to raise our game”
 

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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?
Your company got 360 feedback? If not just be an iron teeth manager and rule by fear
 

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If chiu gotch firing power, then mandate them to come office or forever wfh la
 

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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?
U got power to fire and hire anot?
 

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Ts I think you will vomit blood trying to change the culture of cui team when they are already used to it. Also new team lead need to gain the respect of the old timers, else hard to get them to work for you.
 

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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?
Need buy in and first thing thinking to get them come back office? Shouldn't it be working together with them and build relationships first?
 

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Culture change need time and strong leadership. If you aint, then dont attempt to do it.
 

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I’m planning to join new co.. will have a team reporting to me. It’s well known this team quality is cui.

I think I can help them out. But need buy in. Also attitude needs adj. how should I go about influencing behaviours?

For example, this team is almost full time WFH aka sleeping. Can I ask them give me at least 2-3 days in office at the start?
IMHO.
Make one of them OIC, everything you go look for this person. :ROFLMAO:
 

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You’re walking into a classic “low-trust, low-accountability” situation. The instinct to fix both quality and attitude is right—but the order and method matter a lot. If you push too hard too early (e.g., “everyone back to office now”), you’ll get resistance instead of buy-in.


Here’s a practical way to approach it that actually works in messy teams:




1. Don’t start by fixing—start by diagnosing


Even if the team has a reputation, assume you’re missing context.


In your first 2–3 weeks:


  • Do 1:1s with everyone (ask what’s working / not working)
  • Sit in on workflows, reviews, meetings
  • Look at actual outputs (not hearsay about “poor quality”)

Key questions:


  • Is the issue skill, motivation, unclear standards, or weak management?
  • Are they disengaged… or just unmanaged?

If you skip this step, you risk solving the wrong problem.




2. Set expectations early—but frame them as standards, not control​


You want to reset the bar without sounding like “new boss = crackdown.”


Instead of:




Try:




Be very concrete:


  • What does “good work” look like?
  • What does “responsive” mean? (e.g., reply within X hours)
  • What does ownership look like?

People often underperform because expectations were never explicit.




3. Fix structure before attitude​


“Bad attitude” is often a symptom.


Put in:


  • Clear deliverables and deadlines
  • Visible tracking (kanban, weekly reviews, etc.)
  • Regular check-ins (not micromanaging—just consistent cadence)

Once structure is in place:


  • Slackers become visible
  • Performers feel recognized
  • Peer pressure starts working for you



4. On WFH vs office: yes, you can ask—but how you do it matters​


If you come in saying:




You’ll lose credibility immediately.


Instead, position it as a team reset + collaboration phase:




Why this works:


  • It’s temporary, not a permanent mandate
  • It’s tied to a purpose, not control
  • It signals you’re building something, not policing



5. Build buy-in through involvement, not announcements​


Instead of dictating everything:


  • Ask the team: “What’s getting in the way of doing great work?”
  • Co-create a few team norms (e.g., response times, review standards)

People support what they help create.




6. Deal with underperformance quietly, not publicly​


There will be a few people who are genuinely coasting.


Don’t try to “fix culture” broadly first—handle individuals:


  • Clear expectations
  • Direct feedback
  • Follow-through (this is where many managers fail)

If the worst 10–20% improves or exits, culture shifts fast.




7. Early wins matter more than big plans​


Pick 1–2 visible improvements:


  • Faster turnaround on something
  • Cleaner deliverables
  • Better stakeholder feedback

Then highlight it:




Momentum beats speeches.




Bottom line on your specific question​


Yes—you can ask for 2–3 days in office.


But don’t make it about:


  • “WFH = laziness”

Make it about:


  • “We need tighter collaboration to raise our game”

This angmoh style of mgmt don’t really fly in local context leh.. someone talk to me like that I’ll think damn pretentious
 
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