[reddit] Was I overreacting?

[PoloBoiBoi]

Spoiler: In case post is gone ...

 

[PoloBoiBoi]

 

[addict951]

ts, you see this type of WOT 1 ar, dun post liao la. Edmwers got attention deficit disorder 1.

 

[Woof24]

TLDR: The redditor was crying as she was typing those WOT

 

[tatsit]

Just to confirm, the OP is not Nurul right?

 

[titusilvering]

Divorce lah. Why waste time

 

[Laneige]

settle the family first
liked whats wrong
why the mother will like that friend n not her
is she always asking the hsb to be at her side or to choose side?

 

[TrollAndOgres]

That other woman like got xiao san genes in her sia. Was together with married man, now seemingly looking for next married man while having a bf as backup

 

[Tony.Manero]

I think her concerns are valid although the problems between both of them could be complex,

 

[kittyklysm]

TLDR: OP's husband beta simping for a woman he can't have, and OP having just found out she wasn't his first choice, but now he was her only choice

 

[noname2016]

I give this marriage 3 months. Got family problems and a xiao San hovering in the background, very hard to survive

 

[kuti]

Nothing wrong.

She can also exchange notti messages with her guy friend

 

[alfonsoyy]

Ez to love , hard to be together long term

 

[Evil_Boss]

first sentence she already blames others instead of herself

 

[thisisnotme1212]

summarys ofs wot:


- The past 7 months have been tough for the user and her husband due to issues with his family.
- Husband was calling and messaging a close female friend during this rough patch.
- User doesn't vibe with the female friend and finds it uncomfortable but never forbade communication.
- Messages revealed husband saying his mother regrets letting the friend go, and the friend responded playfully about considering marriage at 40.
- User felt the messages were inappropriate and showed lack of respect, especially given the friend's history of affairs.
- Husband doesn't understand the upset, claims he was just trying to lighten the mood, and later apologized, acknowledging it as a boundary.
- User seeks Reddit advice on whether she overreacted and questions the normalcy of such messages between attached friends.
- Draws parallel with her husband asking her to stop talking to a male colleague early in their relationship.
- Attends couples counseling, but the issue has been overshadowed by more significant family problems.

 

[PaulLevesque]

Was she crying as she was typing this?

 

[Begonia]

C'mon PBB show us some nice kor kor pics! We shouldn't fret over other ppl problem, we stay happy and look at kor kor pics

 

[begintoend]

just reading literally
hubs is a dic
but
also wonder how wife manage to get him to marry her

 

[asiafrenz]

Boring story that happens in the daily life of human here and there

 

[BBClone]

The husband is definitely angling to cheat.

Free food, will eat.