RS with single mum

[Trans-Am]

You need to ask her this:

if y'all are together, do she want more kids?

If no, then you are just a ATM/Shelter for her


Sent from A universe Where pink PWNED everything

 

[brushless]

This is mostly true.
Just enjoy the free seg.
Don't ever commit.
Especially those that are not financially stable.

i got a good friend kena a few years ago, single mum KC until he almost divorce his wife

recently my cousin kena, single mum KC him until he settled her debts, settled her car loan and almost bought a condo for her

both single mums modus operandi are exactly the same pattern

I can see it but they both blind

 

[trevlim]

buy one get x free, usually a good deal

 

[Single_man]

Accept but dun marry since she will lose the chance to pawn her ex husband from alimony. Just tell her that she will agree

Actually she did mention not to remarry .

Here is the litmus test:

Will you get into a RS with Vivian Hsu?

No ..

 

[Velana]

there's a reason why another man don't want her.

the only reason I can accept for divorced couples, especially with kids, is if they cheated, that's the only reason they should divorce.

if they divorce because of irreconcilable differences, then it's most likely both parties are nuts. best to avoid.

 

[uptownman]

Getting married is already very chialat but marry a single mum is even more cham.
But if you happy you may go ahead try and come back here report within 12 months to let us know your experience. Hope is a good one for you but i doubt so.

 

[NeonX]

sure, why not? But not eventually settling with her la, for fun no problem

 

[Acetone]

Need to find background about her… but generally too troublesome to have relationship with this kind

 

[Tenpai]

i got a good friend kena a few years ago, single mum KC until he almost divorce his wife

recently my cousin kena, single mum KC him until he settled her debts, settled her car loan and almost bought a condo for her

both single mums modus operandi are exactly the same pattern

I can see it but they both blind

how they KC the guys?

for me, even if the single mom is Vivian Hsu, I also siam far far

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

Avoid or try if it's works

Never try, never know

 

[Taloona]

This kind of single mums are rare and different

Majority (99%) of single mums are divorcees, broken, public toilet, scheming, deceptive and/or go raw before marriage and get dumped by their bad boy boyfriend, they aren’t innocent angels

The guys who dumped these girls aren't angels either. The girls are always on the losing end as they are carrying the babies.

 

[lolita_5]

Only dumb men will choose to raise another man's offspring


Read HWZ Forum Rules!

 

[Single_man]

Today she bring me lunch
Really trying hard to get my attention

 

[prudie]

you all really talk sai…like you know everything
If our own child is priority and you’re so far down the ladder, we won’t even bother to try to have a relationship with you. We will just look for a f**kboy. Because most of you Singaporean men are even worse than children. And are really bad in bed. Mediocre in career , manners and looks but act and think they are all Andy Lau , sex gods with millions in the pocket.

FYI many single moms don’t need a man to provide for us or our kids. I earn $250k pa, pay for my own condo , car & bike , helper & child’s expenses. My ex gives $350 maintenance a month. I’m with a divorced man with 2 kids younger than mine. Like every other relationship, we have to understand each other & adjust & support each other unconditionally . The good thing is we know even better what we want and can accept, and what matters most - values and character and compatibility. Same for our children - they have to adjust to different homes & parenting styles.

just stop with the keyboard judging and stereotyping . Marriages don’t work out for many reasons.

Be prepared for the mum to prioritize her child over you

 

[Sonderponder]

not sure if the child will really love you. Actually this is hard to say, one of my friend is from broken family. Her mum got married to her current step dad and both mum and daughter love him alot because he cares for them when they are neglected. They are really grateful towards the Step Dad.

 

[masashi]

If the single mum divorced because the guy cheated on her then it's understandable. otherwise it depends.

 

[Insatiable_creat]

Divorce rates so high. Almost 1/4 marriages don't work out. So chances are you might end up dating single moms/dads nowadays.

Be more open minded if you want to find a partner instead of sticking to stereotype beliefs..

 

[jack-320]

Today she bring me lunch
Really trying hard to get my attention

Trying to bait you and KC trap you later on

then become willing to pay for her debts and what not

 

[Single_man]

If the single mum divorced because the guy cheated on her then it's understandable. otherwise it depends.

Her ex have an affair in KTV
But one side story from her ..

 

[MAILAILUAN]

if chio then everything ok