Separation and Divorce

Lchlch

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some serious advice

1. stop holding on to past memories like watching wedding photos. its not gonna help
2. speak with your wife if she is open to mediation and reach out to MSF. they have professional marriage counsellers. not sure how much but i remb its free. if it fails;
3. move out of your home. fk it, move back to your parents if need be. staying in your marriage home is depressing
4. find a good divorce lawyer to speak to so that u and your wife can get a uncontested divorce. trust me u DO NOT want to go into a contested divorce unless u feeling v rich or your assets alot to fight over
5. maintain a "professional" relationship with your wife still since u have kids
Yes try to work things out...
 

harky

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if u stay in the house... better sell or makeover

haiz... my ex also stay in my house de.. i try to make over by change thing and that now a day
 

0nePunchm@n

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if u stay in the house... better sell or makeover

haiz... my ex also stay in my house de.. i try to make over by change thing and that now a day
yes, best is stay away or don't keep stuff that'll trigger the painful memories.
completely start from fresh will let u heal faster :)
 

aarontansp

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I am in the midst of divorce. Not much friends, the loneliness when I returned home looking at our wedding photos is so pain. How to over come and move on?
When everything is sane. Looking at wed photos brings back heypi memories.
 
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