Serious Relationship issue

[camholicx]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

 

[DevilPlate]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

So she bochup and never take care of kids lately?

 

[GreatPumpkin]

You should find a mediator.

 

[bluerhino]

Divorce is better if really no hope. No need force 2 people to stay together and later 1 kill the other.

 

[harky]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

How old?

Maybe let her go but pick her up from there?

But she can say so easily mean something wrong. Secret follow her ba

 

[KnyghtRyder]

Sounds like she has a new suitor

 

[linbeier]

grats on a new beret

 

[Pyromaster]

I think u need to remove the green hat u are wearing

 

[Kapish]

seems like there is a third party .. sorry TS

go to pubbing may hookup with some random guy ... later pass STD to you

 

[enimen]

Hire a PI to tail her for 1 to 2 mths. If there's no hanky panky, just social gathering. Then it's fine.

U also ask remind her of her responsibilities as a mother to the family and kids.

If there is hanky panky, then u have the evidence.

 

[buttbERry]

this one ts have to talk it out with wife

 

[A Better Tomorrow]

Was there any common interests at stake?

If there is/are, what are the chances of going solo or rather how far can it go?

When all else fails, just sign on the dotted lines. Brute strength wins hands down in the society, not one sided emotion.

 

[Dinoboyboy]

Ts, you deserve someone better. Even if you accommodate she will find other reasons to break up with chiu.

 

[huattoeat]

can see that ts not from infantry. Or even maybe new citizen

 

[Lemonkey]

got time go fly kite.

relationship is like flying kite, u still want to maintain the string attached but u don't want the string to break.

so when the string tension is too tight, release a bit more string.

when the wind is not so strong, roll back the string a little

 

[SageWolf]

I heard stories from the opposite side.
Sad for you TS, prepare to pay alimoney

 

[kyokoto]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

I am inclined to say that she is straying. There is likely another man in between both of you who is making her feel like a "princess", fluffing her up with words of affirmation. Be careful... and your wife should know better that she is a married woman and a mother with kids, what kind of life is she craving for? A singleton?

Too many people are getting married nowadays, and worse becoming parents without seriously considering what's the commitment level required.

Cannot commit, dont get married and ruin the lives of your partner and children. Ridiculous.

 

[chaiscool]

If you really love her, then don't you want her to be happy? Even if it's not with you?

Tell her that you love her and want her to be happy, even if it means she has to be with someone else.

Then after divorce you can go find younger one haha. Life is short and you deserve finding a partner that love you. This wife don't want to make you happy, go find someone who does.

 

[enimen]

For her to suggest separation so easily, high chance got 3rd party...

 

[*Sisyphus*]

Sounds like got 3rd party...