Seriously everything need money, life is hard 🙃

[IAmChiobu12M]

Learn to life simple. Adjust life to suit the existing earning capacity. Not chase after all the wants and then hae-hae-chuan trying to earn enough to keep up with life.

But all I want is a just a place I can go home that is safe and free from nonsense.

 

[Encouragesome1]

I really want to end this endless rat race...can someone just buy me?

Should if it happen will hv other problems we can’t imagine

 

[charlieangel123]

Not saying idk nothing is free. But sg living really getting more unbearable lehhh.

And to be fair I know all the first world city has the same problem.

How come so many young people can still be so yolo, happy and carefree?

Everything needs money man. In before i behkan that why hei hei chuan.

From little to big things everything literally needs money. Eat 1 meal want find cheap option also hard. Public transport also keep upz fare though is already the cheapest options.

How to retire like that? How come people my age around me can keep spend money one? While everyday I'm stressing 101 things. And everything is money involved.

Wake up I'm immediately stressed about life. Everyday calculating how to make more money and cut down expenses. Thinking how to invest properly. How to build enough emergency funds, to if my insurance coverage is enough. And all the endless bills. And everything at home also need money. 1 thing spoil need pay to fix. Neighbor from hell do something then need immediately come up with plan B to counter. To looking for next place to move etc.

Is it they got parents support or I'm just tanking too many things alone and too suay? I see ig everyday can eat good food, or do something. Really so much money meh? Even though they are advancing next stage of life on and on also like a breeze one.

I see pregnant mummy everyday party and I'm like huh won't stress about later upcoming all the expenses meh?

I see mothers with kids still can keep go cafe hoping, house, kids all free meh?

I see singles buy 1 bag after another.

I'm really overwhelmed by life man...I can safely say I can feel how a solo breadwinner feels. 我真的很累。我的肩膀真的快扛不起。

dont use aircon
eat $3 cai png
take bus to work no grab
no starbucks, mcd

 

[caterham7]

Not saying idk nothing is free. But sg living really getting more unbearable lehhh.

And to be fair I know all the first world city has the same problem.

How come so many young people can still be so yolo, happy and carefree?

Everything needs money man. In before i behkan that why hei hei chuan.

From little to big things everything literally needs money. Eat 1 meal want find cheap option also hard. Public transport also keep upz fare though is already the cheapest options.

How to retire like that? How come people my age around me can keep spend money one? While everyday I'm stressing 101 things. And everything is money involved.

Wake up I'm immediately stressed about life. Everyday calculating how to make more money and cut down expenses. Thinking how to invest properly. How to build enough emergency funds, to if my insurance coverage is enough. And all the endless bills. And everything at home also need money. 1 thing spoil need pay to fix. Neighbor from hell do something then need immediately come up with plan B to counter. To looking for next place to move etc.

Is it they got parents support or I'm just tanking too many things alone and too suay? I see ig everyday can eat good food, or do something. Really so much money meh? Even though they are advancing next stage of life on and on also like a breeze one.

I see pregnant mummy everyday party and I'm like huh won't stress about later upcoming all the expenses meh?

I see mothers with kids still can keep go cafe hoping, house, kids all free meh?

I see singles buy 1 bag after another.

I'm really overwhelmed by life man...I can safely say I can feel how a solo breadwinner feels. 我真的很累。我的肩膀真的快扛不起。

Attended this earlier this year, can consider
https://www.wellbeingcircles.sg

 

[MyWill]

Are they really happy or use the debts to buy that temporary happiness only. Then get whack by the mountain of debts, become moody later.

My observation is yp dun really care about debt. They used to servicing installments. They like pay pay roh.. boh bian. Completed installments for one debt... they happy happy tell ppl got more bandwidth. I observed no sense of shame or guilt. Everything is so commonplace to them. They can even discuss and talk about them.

 

[charlieangel123]

I really want to end this endless rat race...can someone just buy me?

how much

 

[LWZ]

I just keep paying and paying for the household. Wife said she changed this, bought this, replaced that. Have to just transfer all to her

Need to change wife

 

[charlieangel123]

My observation is yp dun really care about debt. They used to servicing installments. They like pay pay roh.. boh bian. Completed installments for one debt... they happy happy tell ppl got more bandwidth. I observed no sense of shame or guilt. Everything is so commonplace to them. They can even discuss and talk about them.

when they old no job will worry

 

[Kaylin]

u just find a rich man, its possible one. after that use his money to manage the household, improve urself, take courses, learn things, take up a part time job. i feel that men are ok to feed a woman, just dont be a liability, bottomless pit or laze ard doing nothing can already. he gives u money u gotta make yrself useful & exchange with yr value.

 

[charlieangel123]

But all I want is a just a place I can go home that is safe and free from nonsense.

in sg even turn on water tap and lights also need to pay

 

[deathan9el]

there are of those who are even worst off out there
just treasure of what u have for now & be content

:/

 

[SayPorkGuy]

what chu are feeling were all spose to be a man's job. chu should thank feminism and gender equality. but wait, chu still can comprain and have ppl feel empathy for chu. a man will be told to man the fug up and stop whining. oh well.

 

[Encouragesome1]

But all I want is a just a place I can go home that is safe and free from nonsense.

Meimei maybe can list down things needed in order of priority n solve one at a time.
I feel u r just so tired and just needed good rest for now.

 

[charlieangel123]

u just find a rich man, its possible one. after that use his money to manage the household, improve urself, take courses, learn things, take up a part time job. i feel that men are ok to feed a woman, just dont be a liability & bottomless pit can already. he gives u money u gotta make yrself useful & exchange with yr value.

womans youth is the biggest asset

 

[charlieangel123]

what chu are feeling were all spose to be a man's job. chu should thank feminism and gender equality. but wait, chu still can comprain and have ppl feel empathy for chu. a man will be told to man the fug up and stop whining. oh well.

equality

 

[Lareina]

I believe a lot people just spend the money without saving. Once they see money they just spend. They like to follow what everyone is doing to enjoy life. If other people can yolo, they also want to yolo. Whether the money from their own pocket or parents. Just spend and happily post their happy life on social media. Who knows if they really have enough money or not?
I have friend who barely has savings and really spent money away on idols and travelling. No plans for her own future. On the surface u see she enjoying life. But who knows what will happen in the future? I know i cannot live life like hers without savings or plan, so i dun envy her at all.

 

[Kaylin]

womans youth is the biggest asset

its not

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

they either gotch parents to tank or husband to tank... eventually someone has to tank it...

mybfd... here ish meant notch to let chiu retire de... must keep chiur neck juz above the water sho chiu ish keep struggling and slaving in life to drive gdp upz upz upz...

Really sick.

 

[20kjinsatki]

Not saying idk nothing is free. But sg living really getting more unbearable lehhh.

And to be fair I know all the first world city has the same problem.

How come so many young people can still be so yolo, happy and carefree?

Everything needs money man. In before i behkan that why hei hei chuan.

From little to big things everything literally needs money. Eat 1 meal want find cheap option also hard. Public transport also keep upz fare though is already the cheapest options.

How to retire like that? How come people my age around me can keep spend money one? While everyday I'm stressing 101 things. And everything is money involved.

Wake up I'm immediately stressed about life. Everyday calculating how to make more money and cut down expenses. Thinking how to invest properly. How to build enough emergency funds, to if my insurance coverage is enough. And all the endless bills. And everything at home also need money. 1 thing spoil need pay to fix. Neighbor from hell do something then need immediately come up with plan B to counter. To looking for next place to move etc.

Is it they got parents support or I'm just tanking too many things alone and too suay? I see ig everyday can eat good food, or do something. Really so much money meh? Even though they are advancing next stage of life on and on also like a breeze one.

I see pregnant mummy everyday party and I'm like huh won't stress about later upcoming all the expenses meh?

I see mothers with kids still can keep go cafe hoping, house, kids all free meh?

I see singles buy 1 bag after another.

I'm really overwhelmed by life man...I can safely say I can feel how a solo breadwinner feels. 我真的很累。我的肩膀真的快扛不起。

Stop looking at social media

 

[Encouragesome1]

I believe a lot people just spend the money without saving. Once they see money they just spend. They like to follow what everyone is doing to enjoy life. If other people can yolo, they also want to yolo. Whether the money from their own pocket or parents. Just spend and happily post their happy life on social media. Who knows if they really have enough money or not?
I have friend who barely has savings and really spent money away on idols and travelling. No plans for her own future. On the surface u see she enjoying life. But who knows what will happen in the future? I know i cannot live life like hers without savings or plan, so i dun envy her at all.

These ppl nv been with post war times people to know even having your life and clothing on yr back and return home in one piece is great fortune then.