It's like that one lah. For guys we usually chim chye a bit. Can marry up and marry down. For girls must be at least one level up. For example she manager the guy must be at least senior manager, doctor etc etc.
I see my peers many marry woman of all types ones. OL lah, operator lah, office assistant lah. I staff engineer making 9k. My wife office assistant making less than 2k. If roles reverse impossible one I tell you.
I see my wife Malaysian nice ass ( very important cause I'm ass man), nice rack (big C), no jiuhu sound cause not Cantonese, no princess attitude kpkb little stuff. I 167 she say my height just nice for her 160. I aga see I get along OK with her we are happily married for over 10 years liao.
My 2 sisters... Typical sinkie face. Flat top and bottom, diploma holder, hiam their boyfriend this and that. One hiam her bf sign on airforce with a diploma. I tell her gov job stable she say no career progression. I tell her in this environment can liao she say I don't understand one lah since I'm doing OK. I as a guy hear liao also sianz. Really is 家门不幸。