shinmin...Xu Na holds a Ph.D. from Cambridge. Former classmates describe her as knowledgeable, talented, introverted, and polite.

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mothership shared a snippet of her blog.
22 dec 2010:
小的时候,每次做饭前,妈妈都问我:“今天想吃什么”。我的回答每次都一样:“随便”。我是个不挑食的孩子,有什么就吃什么,只要可口就行。妈妈后来对我说,每次问我是为了尊重我,每次我的回答都让她觉得很贴心。没想到我随便的回答竟也给了妈妈一丝温暖。
每次回国,也是回家,妈妈都问我:“想吃什么”。我的回答总是:“家常便饭”。不是我不挑食,而是在国外吃上一次地道的家常便饭很难。有人说,最好吃的饭菜还是妈妈做的。的确如此。

anyone can find the actual blog?
 

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Sibei jialat this case.

I suspect she is those super close to her laopeh. Her mother prob passed away and then left she and her father 相依为命。She may have even chose to be single so she can dedicate all her time to take care of her father.

So when her father suddenly passed away at home, maybe died while sleeping, she couldn't fathom this fact and went into some kind of psychosis episode wch left her unable to accept the demise of her father and that's why the body was kept at home and decomposed until bones.

She then starved herself to death hoping to join her father 一起上路。If my prognosis is correct, really 人间悲剧。That's why parents shdnt be too happy if children are super attached them. It may turn out to be tragic consequences.
Hmm.
If the father went and took "safe and effective" snakeoil jab and died because of it, you will also be in denial given the education background.
 

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Yea now stay in d hse also scared.

Undertakers most scared of suicide by hanging cases. As they bring d body down. Then d last breath in d mouth let out. Very foul smell also.
Why cannot cover the mouth? Scared can't breath ah?
 

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because the liquid has no where to go if it's under the corpse. It's like water seepage. Very sad. The family downstairs also very traumatized. Once you smell blood and bodily fluids like fat etc of a corpse, you will never forget the smell. It's like belacan and dead lizard smell and it sticks to your body.
Wah. I just smelled dead lizard last week. I tot is some poopy weird smell, lasted for 3 days until I discovered it, Shld be crushed by my toilet door.
 

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mothership shared a snippet of her blog.
22 dec 2010:
小的时候,每次做饭前,妈妈都问我:“今天想吃什么”。我的回答每次都一样:“随便”。我是个不挑食的孩子,有什么就吃什么,只要可口就行。妈妈后来对我说,每次问我是为了尊重我,每次我的回答都让她觉得很贴心。没想到我随便的回答竟也给了妈妈一丝温暖。
每次回国,也是回家,妈妈都问我:“想吃什么”。我的回答总是:“家常便饭”。不是我不挑食,而是在国外吃上一次地道的家常便饭很难。有人说,最好吃的饭菜还是妈妈做的。的确如此。

anyone can find the actual blog?

http://danaxu.blogspot.com/?m=1
 

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https://gallium.inria.fr/pastmembers.html

Can find her fellow member of Gallium 2009-2012

Dana N. Xu(INRIA research scientist, 2009-2012; on extended leave).
Seemed like something happened in 2012. 2013 she might still be ok enough to update her blog, then she went down hill from there.

You see
This is what happens when the media DO NOT DO THEIR JOB and end up people speculating and cook up tall tales

Could very well be a Gene Hackman situation
That guy didn't even read the info available by the media so far before anyhow speculating.
 

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So after 2013, she became mentally unsound. For 12 years, no one came to help her? She has no friends or colleagues that she kept in touch?

Her ex classmates recognised her only when the newspaper published her demise.
 

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Hmm if she is so well educated, how will she let herself hunger to death...

Very very strange this case. Not so simple.
Could be suffering from some form of sickness?

Also read here before from someone that he/she is still "living" because of the parents.
 

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Sibei jialat this case.

I suspect she is those super close to her laopeh. Her mother prob passed away and then left she and her father 相依为命。She may have even chose to be single so she can dedicate all her time to take care of her father.

So when her father suddenly passed away at home, maybe died while sleeping, she couldn't fathom this fact and went into some kind of psychosis episode wch left her unable to accept the demise of her father and that's why the body was kept at home and decomposed until bones.

She then starved herself to death hoping to join her father 一起上路。If my prognosis is correct, really 人间悲剧。That's why parents shdnt be too happy if children are super attached them. It may turn out to be tragic consequences.
A very sad case. May they rest in peace.
 

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Seemed like something happened in 2012. 2013 she might still be ok enough to update her blog, then she went down hill from there.


That guy didn't even read the info available by the media so far before anyhow speculating.

Seems in 2013 her post is like, life lessons or something, that each action led to another result and so on.
Then prior to that her post just put title only...seems she fell in love in 2013?

Monday, April 29, 2013

《大学》​

“大学之道,在明明德,在亲民,在止于至善。知止而后有定,定而后能静,静而后能安,安而后能虑,虑而后能得。物有本末,事有终始,知所先后,则近道矣。”

Saturday, March 2, 2013

fine-grained crosswire



Thursday, February 28, 2013

Love

 

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This one sounds abit like one of my neighbours. Mother and daughter pair. Both when see people outside will faster close their doors. Don’t like to share elevators with others, when see got people stand there waiting for elevator, they will pretend to walk to the chute area and wait for everyone to go away then come out and press elevator when nobody is there. Also like to just throw their rubbish on the floor at the chute area instead of just throwing into the chute.


Sounds like germophobic :o
 

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Sibei jialat this case.

I suspect she is those super close to her laopeh. Her mother prob passed away and then left she and her father 相依为命。She may have even chose to be single so she can dedicate all her time to take care of her father.

So when her father suddenly passed away at home, maybe died while sleeping, she couldn't fathom this fact and went into some kind of psychosis episode wch left her unable to accept the demise of her father and that's why the body was kept at home and decomposed until bones.

She then starved herself to death hoping to join her father 一起上路。If my prognosis is correct, really 人间悲剧。That's why parents shdnt be too happy if children are super attached them. It may turn out to be tragic consequences.
u can join cid and be IO, so clever!
 

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Seemed like something happened in 2012. 2013 she might still be ok enough to update her blog, then she went down hill from there.


That guy didn't even read the info available by the media so far before anyhow speculating.
Hannor.. this kind is damn Jia lat.. sibeh jia lat.
 

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The one father and daughter both pass away in flat. :(

Oh no! How come? Sad! :frown:

Need to know what happened to her. Let's say in 2008 when she got her Cambridge PhD she was 30yo. Now should be 47yo. Would still be in her prime teaching in a university or working in a research arm.

So did we take care of our talents? Nope.
 

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Oh no! How come? Sad! :frown:

Need to know what happened to her. Let's say in 2008 when she got her Cambridge PhD she was 30yo. Now should be 47yo. Would still be in her prime teaching in a university or working in a research arm.

So did we take care of our talents? Nope.

As others shared, she went France to work afterwards. Maybe something came undone. C'est la vie. :(
 
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