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Acyyyy said:
Semo gui! Pls cut contact and get rid of her, brother! Wah hear already also blood boil.
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trying to. Thought only going out with her 3 months, but still its real feelings invested.
Very hurt by her actions, and still wished a bit she will change and I can give her 2nd chance....

But yesterday she went full nuclear berserk and tell telling me she hates and and don't want me to contact her, regret knowing me etc.

I kind of suspect the other guy reveal to her we had been talking to each other(because she actually wanted to be his gf more than me)... he told me he didnt' lah, and that he also want to cut her off after knowing all this.


Just feeling super hurt and miserable now
 
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Vegitto said:
Found out the girl who I had been going out with for the past 3 months 2 timed me, slept with both me and the other guy. I found out because she tell me she got another guy want to be with her then give me his number to tell him to leave her. After a couple days I feel more and more wierd then pm him again and talk things out, and everything came out.

Then new year eve she suddenly ki siao and went berserk on both of us, and want to cut contact with both of us.
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Dude, I'm sorry to hear that. The Malay lady?
 
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kleong said:
Keyword spotted. But the more weird thing is why need you to call? Xmm? Moi stead want to talk to you? Anyway, since cut contact, maybe all the better. Dont think you will want to have the thoughts of her rocking with someone else when she is not beside you
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I think she playing with both of us, because as I talked more with the other guy... she can schedule both of us differently.. like celebrate her birthday, go out etc without clashing with each other etc

Then all of a sudden she just want me to msg him to leave her alone and that I will take care of her
 
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Vegitto said:
trying to. Thought only going out with her 3 months, but still its real feelings invested.
Very hurt by her actions, and still wished a bit she will change and I can give her 2nd chance....

But yesterday she went full nuclear berserk and tell telling me she hates and and don't want me to contact her, regret knowing me etc.

I kind of suspect the other guy reveal to her we had been talking to each other(because she actually wanted to be his gf more than me)... he told me he didnt' lah, and that he also want to cut her off after knowing all this.


Just feeling super hurt and miserable now
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It just sounds like a lot of drama shes cooking up, and to purposely pitting two guys against each other, just screams her need for attention.

Sleeping tgt or not before you guys agree to be exclusive is not for me to judge. But knowingly letting you go "handle" the other guy? That's uncalled for. And her sudden go crazy antics.... You never know if theres a 3rd guy.

Moving on to a committed relationship with her is a move into trouble and you will never be able to control ur thoughts and be paranoid moving on.
 
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Vegitto said:
I think she playing with both of us, because as I talked more with the other guy... she can schedule both of us differently.. like celebrate her birthday, go out etc without clashing with each other etc

Then all of a sudden she just want me to msg him to leave her alone and that I will take care of her
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sounds like a player. cut contact better
 
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Acyyyy said:
It just sounds like a lot of drama shes cooking up, and to purposely pitting two guys against each other, just screams her need for attention.

Sleeping tgt or not before you guys agree to be exclusive is not for me to judge. But knowingly letting you go "handle" the other guy? That's uncalled for. And her sudden go crazy antics.... You never know if theres a 3rd guy.

Moving on to a committed relationship with her is a move into trouble and you will never be able to control ur thoughts and be paranoid moving on.
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Ya, both the other guy and I also suspected maybe there's a 3rd guy

I know. Thanks for your advice. Just still very hurt for now
 
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Bowser Jr said:
How u knew the other guy?
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She one day very sudden tell me got guy want to be with her then she want me to tell him to leave her and not hurt her.. and that she will block him after I call him

Shrug.

She's clever enough to play with both of us (or maybe 3 as we suspected) without both of us suspecting anything before this.. but she's also stupid enough to let both of us have contact with each other so if any of us feels something is off, we can talk to each other, and true enough, both of us found out what she has been doing with both of us
 
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Vegitto said:
She one day very sudden tell me got guy want to be with her then she want me to tell him to leave her and not hurt her.. and that she will block him after I call him

Shrug.

She's clever enough to play with both of us (or maybe 3 as we suspected) without both of us suspecting anything before this.. but she's also stupid enough to let both of us have contact with each other so if any of us feels something is off, we can talk to each other, and true enough, both of us found out what she has been doing with both of us
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Its better to have a clean cut than waste time to figure out the real story for this case..
 
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