Long story short. Knew her since she poly (5 years older than her).
That time she had a bf, same age as me, but in police force. She became unhappy with him because he very controlling and even want to know when she reach home, where she go at night or call her mother at night to ask if she reached home..
Then she broke up with him when she study uni, waited for her to get out of it (so not to become rebound). End up she liked her classmate in uni. But they didn't get together somehow. Then a couple years later more she entered workforce, she got to know her current husband and got attached with him.
3 years later I stopped waiting for her when she announced her engagement