Singles Thread 2023

[Spike]

But if u r coming from someone who has potential long term partner, then I think it is better to probe rather than keep inside.

Back then I didn't ask further because of exbf topic that I dun want to touch on. But I'm still interested why she like to go siam diu.

Depending on the context. If u r coming from the angle of a friend or colleague yes maybe they won't affect ur life.

The world has gone backwards. Ppl nowadays like to avoid tough questions. There is a fine line in hurting their pride/ego and caring for others.

Friends that stay long with me usually has one big quarrel or argument with me one lol. Because I jus like to share my view. Some dun take it well while some tend to agree to disagree.

One reason why single males score better during schooling days is because u don't ask unnecessary questions. U like, u woo. No need to care about background or history. That approach substantially increases success rate.

Regardless of context, for any gender to be single by a certain age, it could be by choice, it could be by circumstances. Nevertheless, there is some history. Without a full disclosure, are u going to walk out of a relationship and during the relationship? Or are u going to overlook the past and look forward to a future together? Make ur choice and don't waste their time. Their youth is limited.

Whatever the intention, unsolicited advice is unwanted advice (just like this one). Sometimes it is not because they want to avoid a tough question, there is simply no need to answer. To some of them, who are you to demand an answer anyway?

Lastly, different people have different views. It doesn't mean that because our views are not aligned, we cannot be friends. But if we know for sure that this particular view is going to trigger the fellow, what's the point of going through a big argument for nothing to change?

 

[kleong]

One reason why single males score better during schooling days is because u don't ask unnecessary questions. U like, u woo. No need to care about background or history. That approach substantially increases success rate.

Moi ai stead mai, ai bto mai, ai make babies mai, never fail to fail me.

 

[Wstc333]

Talking abt ex is a double edge sword. Dont say or say half, then accuse of having something to hide. Tell full story, then later become you did this with ex but not me, love him/her more blah blah blah. Worse is when that someone is easily jelly type yet want to probe and probe

Yalor better dun ask. Anyway not impt

 

[Wstc333]

the real nightmares start after the act 冷静 period wears off

Chiu sho sexperienced

 

[Wstc333]

One reason why single males score better during schooling days is because u don't ask unnecessary questions. U like, u woo. No need to care about background or history. That approach substantially increases success rate.

Regardless of context, for any gender to be single by a certain age, it could be by choice, it could be by circumstances. Nevertheless, there is some history. Without a full disclosure, are u going to walk out of a relationship and during the relationship? Or are u going to overlook the past and look forward to a future together? Make ur choice and don't waste their time. Their youth is limited.

Whatever the intention, unsolicited advice is unwanted advice (just like this one). Sometimes it is not because they want to avoid a tough question, there is simply no need to answer. To some of them, who are you to demand an answer anyway?

Lastly, different people have different views. It doesn't mean that because our views are not aligned, we cannot be friends. But if we know for sure that this particular view is going to trigger the fellow, what's the point of going through a big argument for nothing to change?

U sound wise again today

 

[kundalini]

Talking abt ex is a double edge sword. Dont say or say half, then accuse of having something to hide. Tell full story, then later become you did this with ex but not me, love him/her more blah blah blah. Worse is when that someone is easily jelly type yet want to probe and probe

best is just say no ex

 

[Spike]

U sound wise again today

I am wise!

 

[saltydog]

Chiu sho sexperienced

tiagong from @kleong ah hia huan

 

[kleong]

Yalor better dun ask. Anyway not impt

For moi is, if share, i listen. If not, i wont go there. But that by itself could also become a problem. You are not interested in my past, not interest to find out more abt me, then how to have my future.

 

[Wstc333]

For moi is, if share, i listen. If not, i wont go there. But that by itself could also become a problem. You are not interested in my past, not interest to find out more abt me, then how to have my future.

U mean got gers qn u why u nvr ask abt her past?

 

[saiyan2005]

Moi ai stead mai, ai bto mai, ai make babies mai, never fail to fail me.

Haha like buy vegetables. U like u buy. Don't like then don't buy.

 

[kleong]

tiagong from @kleong ah hia huan

书中自有黄金屋，书中自有颜如玉。that is why i always go library

 

[kleong]

U mean got gers qn u why u nvr ask abt her past?

Gers got look at me can steal laugh liao, still want them to qns me

 

[saiyan2005]

U mean got gers qn u why u nvr ask abt her past?

For girls I don't really care about her past. Past is past liao. U loyal while with me is ok de. Unless characteristics are due to her past then understand her abit and guaranteed her I wouldn't be like her past.

 

[Wstc333]

For girls I don't really care about her past. Past is past liao. U loyal while with me is ok de. Unless characteristics are due to her past then understand her abit and guaranteed her I wouldn't be like her past.

Thats a cool mindset

 

[saltydog]

书中自有黄金屋，书中自有颜如玉。that is why i always go library

next taim jiak ylx chiu share chiur knowledge wib moi agn

 

[kleong]

next taim jiak ylx chiu share chiur knowledge wib moi agn

Better to hear from ah hia, the wise old man @Vagrant_Oldman

 

[saiyan2005]

Thats a cool mindset

No point mah haha

 

[Vegitto]

Didi rs not simple la .. it s between two of u . All this things r little things that r outside of the rs la.

Tldr jus find another one la

Okie


wstc zehzeh is my forever one

 

[Vegitto]

Yup, you be there drinking, laughing with friends and still feel like **** inside once you had a moment to yourself.

Yah, so strictly speaking, I don't really like to go, last time went is just follow friends go