This is an interesting conversation..
As a general rule of thumb, most people see themselves as 5/10, even for people that are with below average looks.. Consequently, most males also tend to woo females 6/10 or above.
In short, bees will not go for honey that is not up to their taste.
That said, there are always compensating factors. However, the receiving party may or may not accept that.
Lastly, gender aside, there are also introverted and toxic females around.. hikikomori too.. gender advantage does not really apply to everyone, and is not so smooth sailing de la.