Long ago when I told her I going holiday .. every few day she paste me news link about new flu strain appearing in that country ..
Den when I got sick need surgery .. not very exp also .. she will persuade me to cancel the trip because my "salary not that high" also and need money for surgery .. fast forward to now .. she say she going to the same country for holiday (mind you now even more flu and also natural disaster lo).
Also since my coy relocated to more ulu place that time. I planned to request work from home at least 1 day a week.. when she hear of that she told me I better dont send in request coz bad impression to the boss and the boss confirm wont approve coz she knows the boss very well will not allow for that to happen. But end up my request got approve also. I also ask her why she dont want request wfh also she say she driving the coy pay for her car allowance if work from home very waste house electricity and water bills.
It seem as though what she cant have she dont want me to have as well.
Long ago when I told her I going holiday .. every few day she paste me news link about new flu strain appearing in that country ..
Den when I got sick need surgery .. not very exp also .. she will persuade me to cancel the trip because my "salary not that high" also and need money for surgery .. fast forward to now .. she say she going to the same country for holiday (mind you now even more flu and also natural disaster lo).
Also since my coy relocated to more ulu place that time. I planned to request work from home at least 1 day a week.. when she hear of that she told me I better dont send in request coz bad impression to the boss and the boss confirm wont approve coz she knows the boss very well will not allow for that to happen. But end up my request got approve also. I also ask her why she dont want request wfh also she say she driving the coy pay for her car allowance if work from home very waste house electricity and water bills.
It seem as though what she cant have she dont want me to have as well.
Long ago when I told her I going holiday .. every few day she paste me news link about new flu strain appearing in that country ..
Den when I got sick need surgery .. not very exp also .. she will persuade me to cancel the trip because my "salary not that high" also and need money for surgery .. fast forward to now .. she say she going to the same country for holiday (mind you now even more flu and also natural disaster lo).
Also since my coy relocated to more ulu place that time. I planned to request work from home at least 1 day a week.. when she hear of that she told me I better dont send in request coz bad impression to the boss and the boss confirm wont approve coz she knows the boss very well will not allow for that to happen. But end up my request got approve also. I also ask her why she dont want request wfh also she say she driving the coy pay for her car allowance if work from home very waste house electricity and water bills.
It seem as though what she cant have she dont want me to have as well.
I think you both just not on the same frequency to be friends
Maybe she's just treating U like a good friend and dishing out her concerns and advise and you overly sensitive
this part is better not to gaslight ppl. when ppl tell u ur too sensitive u also dont like tio bo? whether a person is too sensitive or not its ok one. just listen to yrself can liao. if u cant even trust yrself then how?
Long ago when I told her I going holiday .. every few day she paste me news link about new flu strain appearing in that country ..
Den when I got sick need surgery .. not very exp also .. she will persuade me to cancel the trip because my "salary not that high" also and need money for surgery .. fast forward to now .. she say she going to the same country for holiday (mind you now even more flu and also natural disaster lo).
Also since my coy relocated to more ulu place that time. I planned to request work from home at least 1 day a week.. when she hear of that she told me I better dont send in request coz bad impression to the boss and the boss confirm wont approve coz she knows the boss very well will not allow for that to happen. But end up my request got approve also. I also ask her why she dont want request wfh also she say she driving the coy pay for her car allowance if work from home very waste house electricity and water bills.
It seem as though what she cant have she dont want me to have as well.
Sounds like she's jelly of other people being happier than she is, I know someone like that too. They're also always down playing the success of others. Someone's more well off and successful? Say it's luck. Someone's happily married with 2 kids? Comment about how he "blocked a bullet" for other men because his wife isn't good looking.
People like that will forever find fault with whatever you choose to do. Better to just cut them off while it's early.
Long ago when I told her I going holiday .. every few day she paste me news link about new flu strain appearing in that country ..
Den when I got sick need surgery .. not very exp also .. she will persuade me to cancel the trip because my "salary not that high" also and need money for surgery .. fast forward to now .. she say she going to the same country for holiday (mind you now even more flu and also natural disaster lo).
Also since my coy relocated to more ulu place that time. I planned to request work from home at least 1 day a week.. when she hear of that she told me I better dont send in request coz bad impression to the boss and the boss confirm wont approve coz she knows the boss very well will not allow for that to happen. But end up my request got approve also. I also ask her why she dont want request wfh also she say she driving the coy pay for her car allowance if work from home very waste house electricity and water bills.
It seem as though what she cant have she dont want me to have as well.
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