What is it like to marry a much older man?

[jywy2005]

Many women marry old men cos they are financially more established.

However, the younger wives are expected to take care of their husbands at old age..like a maid.

 

[Lustgan]

Did you marry an older man? Age gap around 6 to 10 years or above. How is it like? Do you find it boring or you are always expected to listen to him?

no 代沟meh

 

[jywy2005]

older man if not too big a age gap is fine as they will cherish you more

Not really true. They tend to boss you around and expect you to listen to them cos they think they’re older and thus wiser.

 

[Lchlch]

Side track, those divorcees or widowers , for you want to remarry again?

 

[fandango]

Did you marry an older man? Age gap around 6 to 10 years or above. How is it like? Do you find it boring or you are always expected to listen to him?

My boyfriend older than me 10 years. His kkj cannot stand already

 

[Lchlch]

Many women marry old men cos they are financially more established.

However, the younger wives are expected to take care of their husbands at old age..like a maid.

Yeah usually women will think of this.

 

[Lchlch]

My boyfriend older than me 10 years. His kkj cannot stand already

How old are you mdm?

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

Did you marry an older man? Age gap around 6 to 10 years or above. How is it like? Do you find it boring or you are always expected to listen to him?

A marriage is an equal partnership.

want to "x listen to y; y listen to x", might as well go rear a dog.

thank you.

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

Not really true. They tend to boss you around and expect you to listen to them cos they think they’re older and thus wiser.

He can marry a siambu or vietbu instead if he enjoys this level of control.

 

[Hello_Kitty]

i find due to generation gap, hard to communicate… my parents don’t understand why i do things certain way and i also can’t understand why they do things their ways

 

[popdod]

Many women marry old men cos they are financially more established.

However, the younger wives are expected to take care of their husbands at old age..like a maid.

yand wives hoping old hubby faster die
faster get inheritance.

 

[Thoreldan]

Need to ask her

 

[keqing]

My friend is 20 years old Singaporean girl from wealthy background. Engaged to a 35 years old Singaporean. Her parents only 42 years old. Lol.

 

[coyote]

bbfas how will know?

They do not marry. Single is the best.

 

[Ahemahem]

if the old man is rich then huat

 

[Lss]

what about the other way

how is it like for the older man to marry a much younger woman

can he tahan the looks from others thinking that he is a tikopeh when he goes out with the girl

if the girl has an elder brother who is younger than him, does he feel awkward when the brother calls him 妹夫

if each side parents are 15-20 years or age apart, when the in-laws meet during festive ocassions, will the elderly feel awkward too

Hahaha my brother in law younger than me but looks older than me. Should be fine la.just use name to address each other lor.

 

[buttbERry]

They do not marry. Single is the best.

Seems like this is the case

 

[Mystyque]

Always expected to listen to him all the time isn't a factor of an older partner... It's just his personality and the behavior you reinforce by your interaction...

On the other hand... 99% of the time, the dynamics usually change after marriage... Wife will talk and hubby expected to listen all the time...

Ditto this, doesn’t matter if husband is older by 10yrs, same age or younger by 10yrs

 

[Mystyque]

Older men easier to satisfy I
In bed cos they can't last long

that’s not always true :x

 

[Mystyque]

what about the other way

how is it like for the older man to marry a much younger woman

can he tahan the looks from others thinking that he is a tikopeh when he goes out with the girl

if the girl has an elder brother who is younger than him, does he feel awkward when the brother calls him 妹夫

if each side parents are 15-20 years or age apart, when the in-laws meet during festive ocassions, will the elderly feel awkward too

I don’t usually pay attention to others when out with my wife so doesn’t matter what other ppl might think.

My younger sister has a similar age gap with her husband and despite me being younger, it had never been an issue.

Elders are always awkward simply because they don’t really interact so much after all.