So this is a fair question. It deserves an answer, and a good answer, otherwise I'm going to come off sounding like one of those ungrateful FT assholes who comes to Singapore, gets paid stupid amounts of money, and spends his spare time getting pissed at BQ Bar and bitching about how Singapore is not like wherever they came from. (This is not an entirely unfair portrait: I did more than my fair share of bitching about Singapore, and I spent a heck of a lot of time at BQ Bar.)
Incidentally, if you haven't tried the kebabs at BQ Bar, you really should.
Anyway.
Singapore was good to me. Really good. I liked it, and I had a great time. But I knew pretty soon after I moved there that I wouldn't want to settle down and stay forever.
The weather is an acquired taste: some people love humidity and love that it's summer all year. I don't like either of those things.
It's
crazy expensive. I was earning more than I've ever earned in my life, but I couldn't afford to buy a car. A beer was nineteen bucks (in some places, ahem Post Bar ahem). The rent on my two-bedroom apartment was more than my parents' mortgage payment on their three-thousand-hectare farm. I still don't know how y'all can afford to live there.
And yeah, there's the whole civil liberties and section 377A thingies. Neither of those made me feel particularly welcome.
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The second half of that question: why the USA?
I'm originally from Australia, but I wasn't ready to move back there and settle down; I'd travelled to the States a few times, and liked it a hell of a lot.
America is relatively cheap; even in SF, the second-most-expensive city in the USA, the cost of living's still vastly lower than Singapore. I can have
a brand-new 6.2-litre Corvette over here for less than
the cost of a brand-new 1-litre Toyota Aygo over there.
California, especially, is a fantastic place to live. The weather's mild and the air is clear and fresh. You can be in Las Vegas or WeHo in two hours if you want to party, or to Big Sur or Yosemite or Tahoe (or even Denver or Jackson Hole!) in three or four hours if you want to sit on top of a mountain and be close to nature. Plus there's Utah. Utah is the most underrated state in the union -
five incredible national parks, and the best adventure sports in the country - but nobody ever even thinks of going there.
San Francisco's a great place to work, too. The pay is great; the people are interesting and passionate; and everyone's got grand ideas, some sort of grand plan for how they're going to build the Next Big Thing.
As much as Singapore's a nice place - it's safe, it's clean, it's a great place to raise a family - I highly recommend working in the States or Australia at least once in your life if you get a chance. Come over here. Rent yourself a cheapo apartment in the Sunset or San Jose. Work in the Valley for three or four times what you'd make in Singapore. Meet some people who are smarter than you are, and learn from them. Meet some people who are friendlier than you are, and make friends with them. Buy yourself
a second-hand Ford Mustang for less than twenty grand and drive it to Vegas like Hunter S. Thompson, then push on to Utah and Colorado and let the night sky in Bryce Canyon blow your mind.
I liked Singapore, but it wasn't a forever home for me. America just might be.