Why some men able to sweet talk..xian gf so easily like natural habit while some cant even start good chat with ladies ?

[RuneArmour]

Moi face will auto turn to creepy predator mode if I flirt. So best is to not try and tio sexual harassment

 

[SpicyBird]

interesting ... is it because of potentially saying something that may upset her? or are you talking about personal grooming or body language?

these kind of things can be addressed. if fail then fail loh .... at least you TRIED instead of standing at the sidelines and wondering how she will view you

i think maybe is because toward a girl that u like, you generally wanna "impress" her but every single moves you make e.g talk/behave is gonna affect how she view you. It kinda add pressure to the whole situation.

 

[Linguist]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

3 letters, Y.E.S

But not possible to be paid via skillfuture.

Experience, the more you do the better you become…

Imagine if ended up like Kurt T. Or izzit N.

 

[forests_gump]

I second this.

No interest = no pressure.



One of the problems people have, is they come under pressure to always show their best to someone they are attracted to.

This makes them nervously awkward and tongue-tied when trying to talk to that person. This will also make the other person feel awkward and uncomfortable as well.



To overcome this, just talk to girls that you dun have that kind of attraction to. See what works and what doesn't. Once you have gained enough experience and confidence, you can easily chat up any girl comfortably.

It's both an art and a skill.

Maybe that is why some miw loves fine dining with strangers

 

[Elfblade]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

Tiagong if born as Ang Moh don't even need to sweet talk, Duaki can le, ladies will auto 送上门。

 

[crimsontactics]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

Moi never held a girl's hand before or savour a girl's lips Bro econ food...

Moi ish working to be a better lover!

@Spike @wongminmin @RandomPancake @Travis_Touchdown

 

[kitsura]

Treat them as normal people? Most guys are intimidated by beautiful women so don’t talk to them or try to hard to impress them. Just by acting normal you can easily win the first battle. Whether she then likes you is another story.

 

[Lonewolf83]

Tiagong if born as Ang Moh don't even need to sweet talk, Duaki can le, ladies will auto 送上门。

Angmo is a must
Duaki only will end up like NoNo

 

[wongminmin]

Moi never held a girl's hand before or savour a girl's lips Bro econ food...

Moi ish working to be a better lover!

@Spike @wongminmin @RandomPancake @Travis_Touchdown

then what is this.

 

[crimsontactics]

then what is this.

Nonono paid one not counted Bro wongminmin!!!

 

[Orphan]

Maybe that is why some miw loves fine dining with strangers

Lol

However, you post reminded me - avoid discussing politics with girls one is dating or attempting to court.

I dare say that most of the the time, they'll be bored out of their minds. Will end early due to "boredom".

The fraction of them interested to talk about politics, might have a different political view from oneself. This one may end early, but in a more violent way...

 

[NintendoSwitch]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

They don't give a beep about char boh. They are just holes to be poked like public toilets. Do you talk nicely to a public toilet? Meanwhile, nice guys put char boh on a pedestal to worship. Gun Yin does not descent from the immortal realm for you to poke.

 

[JustForFun]

First of all, kindly understand everyone in this world is unique and varies ???

Stop stereotyping or having silly expectations of uniformity ?

Move on if unsuitable ? Even suitable may subject to change and varies with time change ?

Acceptance and higher tolerance is the way, including give and take ?

No Perfection ?

 

[Sylar22]

all boils down to the thickness of his skin ..

Not the thickness of his … meh

 

[forests_gump]

Lol

However, you post reminded me - avoid discussing politics with girls one is dating or attempting to court.

I dare say that most of the the time, they'll be bored out of their minds. Will end early due to "boredom".

The fraction of them interested to talk about politics, might have a different political view from oneself. This one may end early, but in a more violent way...

The reason why politics are out of range of most girls are because prehistorically they are home makers (then forced to hunt like man ~ which is apredator as in politics nowadays) Historically man trends to polygamy (liars, which what politicians does) than woman.

But nowadays, girls does all that lying as well~ for eg.
'I have not come across one single migrant worker himself that has demanded an apology.'

 

[ghregular]

for a swai ge and bbfa with thick pockets, its easy

but hey, are we talking abt lifetime partner or 1 night stand?

 

[Nevereatrice]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

start by being shameless

 

[ballastic90]

Cos need some skills

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

As per topic..
skills can be teach or not ?

In before omakase is the way.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

It's just BBFAs that have issues talking to women because their mind damm filthy from watching porn.

Actually not true. There are girls also very humsup and some are also ok with such topics. Is how you deliver it.