Will Storage

[qhong61]

Not smart? Do a lot get zero deal you want? Even our now miw want millions then can do work. I follow them

Ur parents

 

[qhong61]

Actually will is when got monies or assets to distribute. If don't have no need will at all as nothing to distribute. So I plan already to use finish but I cannot predict the exact date I die so hard to plan the use finish date.

How abt ur hdb?

 

[sohguanh]

Ur parents

Parents first son don't have is it? Never do work parents die take largest share fair? Just becuz of tradition? Since they do like that then why when they alive we not first son do so much since we not getting any or get less than first son who never do work?

 

[sohguanh]

How abt ur hdb?

Yes that is the only thing left to offspring sell off they split the proceeds. But for cash they ain't getting any. Want monies got hand got leg dunno how to go out and earn? Must take from parents?

 

[reddevil0728]

Yes that is the only thing left to offspring sell off they split the proceeds. But for cash they ain't getting any. Want monies got hand got leg dunno how to go out and earn? Must take from parents?

HDB can do lease buyback if qualify? have you thought of that?

 

[qhong61]

Parents first son don't have is it? Never do work parents die take largest share fair? Just becuz of tradition? Since they do like that then why when they alive we not first son do so much since we not getting any or get less than first son who never do work?

A friend dad said after his death to sell his flat and share proceeds among children.
Recently change his mind that after his death to pass to his last son a divorcee without kids.
What is ur opinion?

 

[reddevil0728]

A friend dad said after his death to sell his flat and share proceeds among children.
Recently change his mind that after his death to pass to his last son a divorcee without kids.
What is ur opinion?

It's the person's wishes. Other people opinion doesn't matter what.

 

[sohguanh]

A friend dad said after his death to sell his flat and share proceeds among children.
Recently change his mind that after his death to pass to his last son a divorcee without kids.
What is ur opinion?

I am saying traditional thinking old fogey. Do you know for Chinese family first son status very big? Father not around is first son assume father status. First son if have another son lagi power like gods in the family. They no need work also get largest share. So those not first son no need work so hard unless first son die earlier than parents then second son take over. I still have not talked about daughters yet lagi worst do most get ZERO cents becuz old fogey worry monies give daughter is to daughter hubby side to spend.

Maybe your family work differently. That is why I hope those batch of old fogey faster go then my batch take over and destroy those old tradition and we set new tradition. First son and their son can slowly starve to death if they no work.

 

[qhong61]

I am saying traditional thinking old fogey. Do you know for Chinese family first son status very big? Father not around is first son assume father status. First son if have another son lagi power like gods in the family. They no need work also get largest share. So those not first son no need work so hard unless first son die earlier than parents then second son take over. I still have not talked about daughters yet lagi worst do most get ZERO cents becuz old fogey worry monies give daughter is to daughter hubby side to spend.

Maybe your family work differently. That is why I hope those batch of old fogey faster go then my batch take over and destroy those old tradition and we set new tradition. First son and their son can slowly starve to death if they no work.

Why need to be so mean?
Btw, u did a lot for ur parents?

 

[sohguanh]

Why need to be so mean?
Btw, u did a lot for ur parents?

What mean just saying based on real life experience from relatives etc. Whether I do a lot is besides the point. The key argument is the old fogey thinking of first son and son as gods should get largest if not all the share. So those not first son no need do alot do already let first son get all or most of the monies what for? Old fogey like first son let their first son serve them since later their monies is give them take

 

[gold_eagle36]

Different folks, different strokes.
I agree that will is for the person writing the will to decide. It's to protect their decision.
Take for example elderly with children. For his sons and daughters, doesn't mean who contribute more or took care more should get bigger share, etc.
The will writer as the right to decide how he wishes to distribute regardless of how the rest think.
If not, even if the sons & daughters discuss this and that, still need the elderly to give approval and write accordingly.

 

[babyrobo]

Do we have to inform who we want to leave the inheritances to where the will is stored if storing outside of the house?

 

[babyrobo]

There are also many will writing services, how can we tell if they're legit wills?

 

[sohguanh]

Different folks, different strokes.
I agree that will is for the person writing the will to decide. It's to protect their decision.
Take for example elderly with children. For his sons and daughters, doesn't mean who contribute more or took care more should get bigger share, etc.
The will writer as the right to decide how he wishes to distribute regardless of how the rest think.
If not, even if the sons & daughters discuss this and that, still need the elderly to give approval and write accordingly.

Agree. So if know the will writer is to distribute don't care who contribute more or take care more then simple while elderly is alive no need do so much why do so much? In the end they give monies to those who don't work and based on first son highest status mindset. Let the first son do the work.

 

[qhong61]

Agree. So if know the will writer is to distribute don't care who contribute more or take care more then simple while elderly is alive no need do so much why do so much? In the end they give monies to those who don't work and based on first son highest status mindset. Let the first son do the work.

Don't do then.

 

[qhong61]

There are also many will writing services, how can we tell if they're legit wills?

As long as got two witnesses.

 

[qhong61]

Do we have to inform who we want to leave the inheritances to where the will is stored if storing outside of the house?

Just inform the executor.
Don't need to inform beneficiary.

 

[sohguanh]

Don't do then.

Of cuz but if say first son die then the baton pass to next son means must do liao.

 

[Perisher]

As long as got two witnesses.

Do note the criteria to qualify as a witness, which is crucial.

For the signing of your will, you need to have 2 adult witnesses to your will. Note that the 2 witnesses must not be beneficiaries or spouses of your beneficiaries in your will. This legal requirement ensures that the witnesses do not have a direct interest in your estate and as such would be impartial.25 May 2021

 

[churnmaster]

Agree. So if know the will writer is to distribute don't care who contribute more or take care more then simple while elderly is alive no need do so much why do so much? In the end they give monies to those who don't work and based on first son highest status mindset. Let the first son do the work.

I have a different line of thinking …

We decide who would be our spouse, our friends, our in laws, etc. However, we don’t decide which family we are born into. We don’t decide who would be our parents, our grandparents, our uncles and aunts, our siblings. That’s decided by god the almighty and so let’s just respect his decision. And keeping that in view, our relationship with our family members shouldn’t be just transactional (give &take) in nature.

We only live once and to experience this journey called life to its fullest, we have to live in harmony with respect towards one another (especially the elderly) and without any hatred, anger, resentment, etc. The journey comes to an end for everyone and when it ends, we leave behind everything that we craved to acquire during the journey. The earlier we understand this, the better our experience.