Making small purchases to relieve “stress”

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sammi_girl

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I realised I’m making quite a bit more purchases to make myself happy. It’s not splurge for sure as I can well afford, just that they are more of wants than needs..

Is this normal to behave like this?

my “stress” I believe are covid 19 side effects, making life a little more tougher
 

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Small purchase shopping therapy is good. I always go supermarket to buy stuff too
 

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same here...

i bought wireless ear buds... foldable bicycles... switch... ipad mini...

no save money.
 

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I realised I’m making quite a bit more purchases to make myself happy. It’s not splurge for sure as I can well afford, just that they are more of wants than needs..

Is this normal to behave like this?

my “stress” I believe are covid 19 side effects, making life a little more tougher

Single Girl behave like that is normal. Married charbor behave like that usually not married and no babies yet.
 

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Small purchase is good but you must also watch it because many small ones can accumulate into a huge CC bill.

Nowadays I just add a lot of stuff to my Amazon cart and check their "stock market" a few times a day. If the price ever drop below a certain level, I will hoot.
 

Laneige

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U r th
I realised I’m making quite a bit more purchases to make myself happy. It’s not splurge for sure as I can well afford, just that they are more of wants than needs..

Is this normal to behave like this?

my “stress” I believe are covid 19 side effects, making life a little more tougher

I rem some girls here have mental issues
R u ok ti begin with

Anyway ppl who buy things to feel happiness never see that after buying n the thrill over is nothing meh
I buy things have to think n find it a chore to make decisions
Nowadays save environment don’t buy

So the prob now is to see through yr purchases n gain some wisdom
U need to wk on the inside n not the outside -spend time relying on external stuffs when u shld learn to master yr heart
 

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I realised I’m making quite a bit more purchases to make myself happy. It’s not splurge for sure as I can well afford, just that they are more of wants than needs..

Is this normal to behave like this?

my “stress” I believe are covid 19 side effects, making life a little more tougher

Yes, most types of stress are produced by a general feeling that we do not have or are losing control over a lot of things happening in our lives. This is why eating, shopping, gaming, etc are therapeutic because they create the perception (albeit illusory) of control in your own life.
 
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