We merry for 3 years liao, no more piak piak since we had our first son.
Ask wife for sexy time, she say tired, busy, no time. Very stressed at work.
Suggest marriage counselling, she says I am the problem.
Want to divorce but scared pawned by WC.
What should I do? Should I cheat on my wife since we have no more love and connection.
Personal opinion as a divorced and remarried.
You should communicate (in a nice way) to your wife, stating your needs and of course understand what are hers as well. Understand what are her stresses at work, is it temporary? Or is it prolonged due to toxic environment.
For you, are putting sufficient to care for the kid, all issit throwing money only?
Kid might be a factor to consider, but once the kid grows up, you all will still divorce.
If you are struggling to make ends meet, then divorce can be costly. Emotionally it is tiring as well. Not to scare you but, to let you be informed.
Regarding cheating or not, it will just be grounds for divorce. ( Contrary to what people always say, the "vicitm" can lobby for more assets.)
Division of matrimonial assests depends on individual contributions monetary and intangible ones too.