Seriously everything need money, life is hard 🙃

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Whirling_Dervish

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Prices have actually jumped alot for most essential items. It is not uncommon to see the price of everyday groceries going up by 30-40% since COVID.

In the past few months, I have actually seen elderly couples rummaging through the bins at the farmer's market I get my groceries from to bring home those cauliflower leaves or torn lettuce leaves to eat.

Times are indeed hard.
 

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Actually you can write pretty long paragraphs and can articulate yourself quite well.

I am sure that you have a decent job and can continue to keep up. Try not to overthink and focus on the more important things in life. At work, focus on the next important step to keep your job safe.

It's also very impressive that you achieve 100k before age 25.
She been thru alot
 

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2 words, 命好

That why I stop joining these gatherings. Social media at least I have choice to see and ignore. During real life interaction I cannot siam so I skip going.

But idk I just find it especially this group is just so ig perfect. I start to wonder is it my life just too bad or what.

I don't even join such gatherings, i might even be invisible to such people. Might as well, at least i save money and social energy and i only focus on my one of my friends. We don't spend lavishly, we even have simple meal together during 🎂
 

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Everything depends on your luck.... I got a friend, scrawnchy little ****, like those u 1 punch can floor type. Pua peh ku, beta personality. However, his career smoother than ky jelly. Work for o&g jv no need plp,work hard or showcase work. 10 years cbjkl, kkylp get at least 9 mths bonus yearly. Skills wise mayb a 7/10 but super in comfort zone.

So yeah, suck thumb and carry on...

Yes its all about luck. I've a fren that is short & skinny, looks like a drug addict. And he has no career ambitious, no house/no car, no savings. But he found a Korean gf who is pretty & succesful career. She covered all their expenses during dating and they just got married recently. And ppl always say Korean girls are materialistic etc but he just found the 1 in 100 gem

And you can also be the most hardworking dude with the most positive personality... but if your luck sucks, your life will never progress far. You take 3 steps forward, God will throw a stone and push you back 2 steps... forever progressing like a turtle in life while your peers fly to the sky
 

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don't think about retiring - that will remove one big worry.

don't compare with other people - 人比人气死人.

learn to be contented and live within means.

lifespan too short to be worrying about many things so be happy.
 

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Earn yr own money is the best. U free to spend it. No need ask hubby for money.
This, my friend's a SAHM, buy anything also need to ask husband for permission. I've been asking her to go back to work and hire a helper, but I think she's too comfortable and used to not working.
 

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Just market yourself on dating apps, profile to state directly you are looking for someone rich to marry, you want to change your life etc etc.

List what you can offer to the man (I cannot list examples here because I think I will get bend but you know what I mean). :o

Really, if it is money that you want, easy, just put yourself out there.
 

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Adopt the YOLO mentality... Live for yourself, do everything in your best interest.

Don't bother about others not closely related to you. Even if have to pawn others to succeed, just do it!
 

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why you siao think about retiring. unless you top 3%, retiring not possible la. Got money wanna spend just spend, think so much for what?

Save till old then spend? At that point of time you gonna spend or you gonna use on your sick/aging body?
 

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Comparing yourself to rich taitai and ASK, surely will feel inferior.

Single staying with parents and earning median pay shouldn’t be that bad
 
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