Does any man here feels tired?

[glarerder]

Seriously....



You obviously dunno and can't rbr what you are babbling yourself. Try to be consistent as least?

Not sure what you're posting and quoting has any relevance. Maybe try to be clear on what you're attempting to bring forward?

 

[harbinger255]

Not sure what you're posting and quoting has any relevance. Maybe try to be clear on what you're attempting to bring forward?

Complaining IS normal.... it's as normal as sh1tting... that's what give rise to the saying misery loves company... before it was twisted into the sinkie love to pwn sinkie definition at least

 

[glarerder]

Complaining IS normal.... it's as normal as sh1tting... that's what give rise to the saying misery loves company... before it was twisted into the sinkie love to pwn sinkie definition at least

That's what I thought, you have no idea what the post meant.

Put it in another way.

If one likes to complain and then do something about it, to work things out, fine.

If one only complains and not do anything about it to improve the situation, then don't be together in the first place.

If one only complains and not do something about it, and then claims to others that what they're in is good, then they're just trying to get others to enter into something they don't enjoy just so that they can have more people suffering together with them.

 

[Coaster]

This is life... nothing to do with man or woman

 

[AriesBlack]

dude, we are tired everyday

 

[RandomPancake]

Tired but can only blame myself for being the champion of the swimming race, now got to live up to it

 

[harbinger255]

That's what I thought, you have no idea what the post meant.

Put it in another way.

If one likes to complain and then do something about it, to work things out, fine.

If one only complains and not do anything about it to improve the situation, then don't be together in the first place.

If one only complains and not do something about it, and then claims to others that what they're in is good, then they're just trying to get others to enter into something they don't enjoy just so that they can have more people suffering together with them.

Complaining vents out the little frustrations one feels.... it might not be huge deal breakers that you make it sound it is... I am happy in my marriage but it's not all smooth sailing too.. we quarrel, there are quirks that irks me and vice versa... Does that mean that the solution to my problems is to divorce my wife? No, I vent out and find solidarity amongst my buddies some times... and so does my wife.

Now I am not saying that staying single is wrong - marriage obviously is not for everyone... but your way of promoting that singlehood is better for all, or even most, men... well... if you can objectively just take your own rationale here and apply on yourself, you will see the high hypocrisy and why ppl disagree with you so much

 

[melankholy]

I am ok with the responsibility. But my body and age cannot keep up. This is where my tiredness is from.

 

[Icychemist]

I am ok with the responsibility. But my body and age cannot keep up. This is where my tiredness is from.

and that tired will lead to mental tiredness...

 

[Icychemist]

And man suppose to be strong mentally and physically to provide emotional support to his wife/family.
All the sadness got to keep it to himself and act as nothing can bother him.

that is right.

i was reading a post on the internet a moment ago.

the guy was saying their kid passed away due to cancer about 9 years ago. at that point in time, everyone ask the wife to be strong, as the guy to be strong so he can be there for the family. absolutely nobody asked about him, only a couple of male friend of his asked if he is okay.

it's like man is expected to hold the fort no matter what.

i guess that's the price to pay for being a man? u gotta be strong no matter what.

 

[Ahemahem]

hustle now and relax later in life

 

[TiedInsurer]

As I grow from a boy to become a man, I just realised it is tough being a man. Woman and children expect you to provide. Country expect you to protect. It seems like everything you do is not for yourself, but for everybody else. Not gonna lie, I honestly am tired.

That's why you stay BBFA. I'm not kidding. A man earning just $3k can live a very high quality life, with time and money to enjoy simple hobbies. It's only when women come into the picture that expenditures go right through the roof. Just think back on when you were single.... how much you spend a year?

 

[Laguna123]

hustle now and relax later in life

Hustle and enjoy at the same time, because tomorrow may not come.

 

[TiedInsurer]

Lol. You imply it’s a big loss to women that men stop dating and chasing.

Enlightened people with reasonable expectations to a relationship will continue to come together and flourish.

Those men who hold outdated ideals will be bbfas or have to go buy themselves a maid/sex-partner from a developing country.

Don't think he's implying anything. Both men and women make sacrifices when they marry, and especially when they have kids. Not everyone can stomach those sacrifices, and some will become very bitter about it and blame their spouse for not sacrificing "enough".

This isn't gender exclusive, and both men and women do it. Such people shouldn't be getting married.

 

[A Better Tomorrow]

Actually it should be the opposite, if one choose an open mind.

Look closer at what's happening within the family and the answer will reveal.

 

[sick_and_tired]

As I grow from a boy to become a man, I just realised it is tough being a man. Woman and children expect you to provide. Country expect you to protect. It seems like everything you do is not for yourself, but for everybody else. Not gonna lie, I honestly am tired.

Not that type of tired I expecting . My tired is night can't sleep morning can't wake up

 

[LoaGong12]

As I grow from a boy to become a man, I just realised it is tough being a man. Woman and children expect you to provide. Country expect you to protect. It seems like everything you do is not for yourself, but for everybody else. Not gonna lie, I honestly am tired.

u should hv known b4 getting married?

 

[Suporter]

Chop......

 

[harbinger255]

Not that type of tired I expecting . My tired is night can't sleep morning can't wake up

No sh1t...

sick_and_tired​

Arch-Supremacy Member​

 

[harbinger255]

that is right.

i was reading a post on the internet a moment ago.

the guy was saying their kid passed away due to cancer about 9 years ago. at that point in time, everyone ask the wife to be strong, as the guy to be strong so he can be there for the family. absolutely nobody asked about him, only a couple of male friend of his asked if he is okay.

it's like man is expected to hold the fort no matter what.

i guess that's the price to pay for being a man? u gotta be strong no matter what.

More to you specifically... have you tried sounding it out? At least to your wife, doubt gahmen will do anything about it.