I am a failure. Depressed.

[enimen]

This is how a person snaps and then start hacking everyone in office. Better check your mood

 

[cplbao]

You are not alone. I also feel like a failure. Many times.

 

[antonpoh]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Then you should learn this.

 

[Shutterbox]

But ts is senior mentor here. Ts has many likes here.

This one already win many many people here le

 

[Insatiable_creat]

Start small. Baby steps at a time. Eg: 5 push ups a day instead of 50. Slowly build up your confidence again. Dwelling on your sorry state hoping for divine intervention is not gonna help. You have to help yourself.

Even if all else seems to work against you. At least you still have your strength from the push ups. Lol.

 

[Yuripa]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Life is short Yolo

Just find a jod that isn't too much stress and gives you work life balance

Not sure if youre married or attached or single

Either way all 3 status have their pros and cons

End of the day need to be at peace with yourself

Focus on a few priorities that you feel matters most and go towards those targets one step at a time

Add oil TS!!

Dm if you wanna stress free tcss session!!

 

[Gweedkur31]

Ppl will have ups and downs in their lives.
Usually its psychological, but to eliminate the possibility of bodily functions.
Ask yourself when it happens.
For me, I know myself when I cant perform.
It is when I have a headache which wouldnt go away.
Vision will sometimes get blurry. Have an urge to scold anyone in my way.

So for me is - Today got pang sai le ma?
Dun underestimate the power of release, accumulated toxins
in the digestive systems, not clearing them will affect the mood.
I suggest trying the squat style. (Ya, in Bintan, no choice de - but)
Its good for you.
Hope you recover your confidence soon.

"The gut-brain connection is no joke; it can link anxiety to stomach problems and vice versa." Harvard Health..

 

[VIPHUAT888]

You have house debt and car debt? And children debt?

if no, you are doing way better than others.

hope this help you feel better

 

[KakiMeow]

Huai dun chiu...

... Goes counselling

 

[qhong61]

But ts is senior mentor here. Ts has many likes here.

This one already win many many people here le

He is popular

 

[Encouragesome1]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Didi a mah mantra for u is , go n do other stuff if u don’t like this work

accept what u can’t change n change what u can’t accept

 

[Philipkee]

Bro go holiday no use.
Come back even more stress.
My suggestion is go for mediation retreat in Malaysia.

Not sure if u r suggesting what my friend did. She joined a temple in east Malaysia. Think it’s Sabah. It’s on the mountain top

So she spent two weeks with the nuns praying and following temple routine. And because it’s on the mountain top, everything was fresh and there was no internet or phone access.

Not too sure how she arranged that but she said it was refreshing. Especially the part where there was no phone no internet and air is all fresh and all work done is more or less spiritual (praying) or manual (sweep the floor, cook the food but no writing of reports).

 

[Polar bear 16]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

at least u r alive. some people want to live also cannot.

everyone will be the same at the end of life. so y not choose to live happily until then

 

[GarnetDragon]

Hey TS, hope you can get the help you need. You got this 🫶

 

[Vinda99]

TS you have too many can'ts in your life

Don't let can'ts hold you back

Sometimes can'ts may appear every scary, like a black hole leading into the unknown

Some can'ts may look like hairy monsters

But all you have to do

is to f*** the can'ts

Then your life will be better

 

[Dinoboyboy]

So when girl gets hard on me, I get hard back at girl?

…not judging bro…but if a girl becomes hard on me, i will run as far as i can…

 

[Lchlch]

Hey TS, hope you can get the help you need. You got this 🫶

Yo bro dragon hru doing?

 

[Shutterbox]

…not judging bro…but if a girl becomes hard on me, i will run as far as i can…

Hard as in "tekan" la

 

[grevq80o]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Go walk one round Bedok Reservoir.

 

[Ethan_]

看开点. 不要太执着. 要用平常心去面对一切.