Been a month...realise I still like her alot

[kodomo80]

Just curious...

Do women always test guys?

If shes interested in u

 

[f-o-f!]

If he ended up with this girl, and post a photo of him kissing her here, and get the girl to post here acknowledging the relationship, I buy everyone who read this post HDL.

That's how remote the possibility is.

you mean ts or the other poster..? and why always HDL? you all really love that, huh.

 

[Spike]

you mean ts or the other poster..? and why always HDL? you all really love that, huh.

There are two official food in EDMW..

Cai png is life.

HDL is for fights.

 

[f-o-f!]

Just curious...

Do women always test guys?

depends on life stage. maybe when young/not serious. i recall you previously said you're both in your 30s? if so, i don't think she would be testing you? maybe wait and see if she initiates something since you already asked her out twice? she could also be an avoidant and needs space due to fear of getting too close and getting hurt, but doesn't seem so from your previous interactions.

 

[Red Ronin]

depends on life stage. maybe when young/not serious. i recall you previously said you're both in your 30s? if so, i don't think she would be testing you? maybe wait and see if she initiates something since you already asked her out twice? she could also be an avoidant and needs space due to fear of getting too close and getting hurt, but doesn't seem so from your previous interactions.

I always feel like she is testing me...

When I think back to our interactions. I realized when she wants something she will not voice it out. but she will create opportunities and u will need to figure out what she wants.

I think she is quite intelligent.

 

[kodomo80]

I always feel like she is testing me...

When I think back to our interactions. I realized when she wants something she will not voice it out. but she will create opportunities and u will need to figure out what she wants.

I think she is quite intelligent.

so do you enjoy it?

 

[f-o-f!]

I always feel like she is testing me...

When I think back to our interactions. I realized when she wants something she will not voice it out. but she will create opportunities and u will need to figure out what she wants.

I think she is quite intelligent.

hmm. doesn't seem a good thing to be feeling that way..?

but that sounds like a typical girl. we've been taught since young to be people-pleasers and don't want to make demands on people. so it seems like we're always hinting and not being direct. if it affects you, maybe you can have an honest talk with her, let her know it's ok to be direct with you, that you'd in fact prefer it.

 

[Red Ronin]

so do you enjoy it?

I can't lie but it does feel good

 

[kodomo80]

I can't lie but it does feel good

thats the most important thing. Enjoy the process

 

[doratch]

I always feel like she is testing me...

When I think back to our interactions. I realized when she wants something she will not voice it out. but she will create opportunities and u will need to figure out what she wants.

I think she is quite intelligent.

It depends on individuals.

Some are more straightforward and will tell the other person what they want.

Most will want their other halves to know what they want coz they perceived it as "if he loves me, he should know what I want".

If this style doesn't suit you, then its better to let go coz I dun think she will be able to change her personality after you guys are together.

Its difficult to change a person's personality, not saying that it won't happen though.

 

[Red Ronin]

thats the most important thing. Enjoy the process

There was an eureka moment when i realized she wanted me to go buy stuff with her.

That felt nice

 

[Red Ronin]

It depends on individuals.

Some are more straightforward and will tell the other person what they want.

Most will want their other halves to know what they want coz they perceived it as "if he loves me, he should know what I want".

If this style doesn't suit you, then its better to let go coz I dun think she will be able to change her personality after you guys are together.

Its difficult to change a person's personality, not saying that it won't happen though.

We are both on the extreme end of introvert.

I am also not straightforward with my words. But my actions will be quite obvious

 

[kodomo80]

We tend to think too much sometimes, just go with the flow.

 

[doratch]

We are both on the extreme end of introvert.

I am also not straightforward with my words. But my actions will be quite obvious

What is "obvious" to you, might not be obvious to her and vice versa.

In the end, some will get exasperated and break up.

 

[gaul_ads]

What's the back story? Your ex gf or what?

In b4 it is my friend not me..

 

[gaul_ads]

TS never listen to edmwer..

Never jiak and poo at the same place

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

that's why i said it works only if she feels some attraction to him..

to be honest, girls are not as focused on looks as guys are. i recall @IAmChiobu12M also said something like she's not attracted to the very good-looking guys? same for me. think too much stereotyping of females here.. i stand by what i said. if short, average looking, goody 2 shoes ignores me, will i care? if i am attracted to him, then yes. i myself eat caifan and take bus. don't see what's the issue there. can eat caifan and take bus home together.

i think it matters the type of person you're looking to attract, too. i keep seeing people here say must have money to attract girls. well, then don't be surprised if the girls you attract are gold-diggers and leave you once you have no money.

Yes honestly girls are quite feeling based one. Once we like we just keep like until you screw up big time she heartbroken.

 

[f-o-f!]

We tend to think too much sometimes, just go with the flow.

especially introverts..masters of overthinking!

 

[Spike]

We tend to think too much sometimes, just go with the flow.

To go with the flow, you need to read the flow correctly..

An example of TS.. he can find an implicit meaning in every action the lady takes..

 

[kodomo80]

To go with the flow, you need to read the flow correctly..

An example of TS.. he can find an implicit meaning in every action the lady takes..

thts why if the girl likes or gives u chance, its half the battle won liao