Just play it cool lo and do what u are doing now ie. Leave her alone and don’t act desperate. After all you’ve only been out once with her.
I feel you are doing the correct thing. Just revert to the “before outing” behaviour and let her initiate again. If nothing then so be it.
doesn’t matter what he does tbh, the girl is not interested in him. if a girl likes you she will make it easy, create opportunities for you to hang out with her. i always thought i was the one chasing my exes, until we go tgt and they admitted they were the ones who made the first moves
she doesn’t like you, if she does she would slow down for you. do you know how easy it is when a girl likes you?
it’s well known that good girls like fugbois
yeah. agree with you. sometimes ppl got their own reason. its also another form of love and respect for the other human being.
You are right. i mention before I don't wanna scare her off. She's quite friendly, not so awkward now. Though I sense some reservation when I talk about a cafe. I didn't ask her out, just said casually she can try out when she's less busy. When I sense it's a good timing, will ask her out again. Maybe after a date, she will know me better and develop feelings.well, that's true..but he's been clear from the start he doesn't want to scare her off. i don't think he has totally zero chance, just that it's not looking good..wasn't there someone else who went on a few dates with a colleague before he developed feelings for her? i recall he posted his thread in ts' original thread as well. so all is not lost.
When I pass her snacks, I ask her if she will be in company for long, she's not leaving definately, so those who posted that I may cause her to resign, she obviously don't think I'm bothering herhe mentioned it was a bit awkward after. she couldn't have been 'unsure', though. he asked her out for a meal, not confessed. if he had confessed, i think she might seriously consider leaving.
Thanks bro. I agree if the girl like the guy, she will try to appear as the ideal partner rather than workaholic. Makes sense, I alrdy know she don't like me.
No worries. Will just continue to be friendly and pass snacks to her or leave on her table sometimes. I realise when I gave little snacks that are not common, I can share where I buy them, the different flavours and which ones must try. She will be curious. V short chats but we have things to talk about and seem quite natural. And don't make sense to pay me back coz they don't cost much. She will offer me back snacks. Saw her big box of snacks in a corner and of coz her flowers. Over time, I find out more what snacks/food she like, some which I also like. Also, what flowers she like etc
Hey bro, been v busy but still ok. How about you? Any disagreements? Offend her with something you say or did without knowing? Or maybe she feel like you two don't click after a few dates? Many reasons but hey at least you all went on a few dates tog. You 2 attended some weekly exercise class right? Never see her there?
Quite a few say such good girls like players. Maybe true for some. But base on my observation of how she think and talk and her age when I worked with her, I think those v smart nerdy type, carry himself v well type should attract her, not things like car, condo etc since she herself is financially stable. She know I own a car anyway. Then next, maybe chemistry like some of you say and she don't feel we have.
Yes, i mention before also. maybe to do with timing. The other guy appear first.
