Men don’t actually want love, money or sex… they want RESPECT from their wives. True or not?

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We always hear that men want love, financial stability, or intimacy in a marriage. But here’s the hard truth I keep hearing from married men: none of that matters if their wives don’t respect them.

Examples of “disrespect” that they say cut deeper than anything else:
  • Being scolded or belittled in front of the kids
  • Wife badmouthing him to her siblings or family
  • Complaining about him openly on social media
Some even claim that once a man feels consistently disrespected at home, it doesn’t matter how much love, money or sex there is — he mentally checks out of the marriage.

Do you agree? Is respect the ultimate deal breaker for men, above everything else?
Women generally have less respect and concept of respect. their biological advantage to control their emotions means they often present an image upfront that is completely different from what they think, with many layers. Men who overcome this bullsh*t are the ones that get respect.

Also, it is objectively naive to say that none of that matters if "etc etc is not given". It is screaming small dick energy.
 

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Women generally have less respect and concept of respect. their biological advantage to control their emotions means they often present an image upfront that is completely different from what they think, with many layers. Men who overcome this bullsh*t are the ones that get respect.

Also, it is objectively naive to say that none of that matters if "etc etc is not given". It is screaming small dick energy.

Beta male isn't a good trait at all I guess .

It isn't attractive to neither sex .

That's why local woman often suan local males in the public .
 

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Women generally have less respect and concept of respect. their biological advantage to control their emotions means they often present an image upfront that is completely different from what they think, with many layers. Men who overcome this bullsh*t are the ones that get respect.

Also, it is objectively naive to say that none of that matters if "etc etc is not given". It is screaming small dick energy.
my sister scold her husband like her son. familiarity breeds contempt. the culture here is like this have to accept
 

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Respect and 撒娇, confirm the husband will not stray. :o

*Includes piak piak of course
 

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many divorce case can hear this. no respect from wife.
All because of gender equality ; in the old era, once a woman married into a man household; she was duty bound and obligated to the clan

Rast time women knew their positions in the house; now traditional values are lost.
Compare to other neighbouring countries with ethinc chinese women; they still retain the traditional values thought by their parents even with modernisation
 

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We always hear that men want love, financial stability, or intimacy in a marriage. But here’s the hard truth I keep hearing from married men: none of that matters if their wives don’t respect them.

Examples of “disrespect” that they say cut deeper than anything else:
  • Being scolded or belittled in front of the kids
  • Wife badmouthing him to her siblings or family
  • Complaining about him openly on social media
Some even claim that once a man feels consistently disrespected at home, it doesn’t matter how much love, money or sex there is — he mentally checks out of the marriage.

Do you agree? Is respect the ultimate deal breaker for men, above everything else?
Yes, its true.

You need to believe in me because I'm the medicine 💊 that you forgot to take.
 

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All because of gender equality ; in the old era, once a woman married into a man household; she was duty bound and obligated to the clan

Rast time women knew their positions in the house; now traditional values are lost.
Compare to other neighbouring countries with ethinc chinese women; they still retain the traditional values thought by their parents even with modernisation
even thai wife obey their husband.
 

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respect can 当饭吃?
If you have $, love and sex, you auto get respect.
No, hab money and sex dun get auto respect. Sama sama like the chocolate bars on the shoulder; chiu may not rike the person but you sure must respects the bars which represent the institution
 

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My friend once had a female friend that showed him contempt and disrespect, he then felt emasculated, cant erect and proceeded to open an edmw account in dec 2019.. :frown:
Got blue pill leh.

Why marry such a woman. 😂

There’s this particular couple living in the same block as me, the wife always complaining annd berating her husband infront of others.

Once I was in the same lift, she said “ why you always so lazy? No wonder you are so fat”….

I wonder why that guy go marry her also… both are the buibui kind, but she is worse than those fat , oily ahsoh at the markets and she’s only 30s... that guy must really have some fetish for pork belly to tahan her verbal abuse and disrespect
Kinda sad, likely been told that a lot that he believes he don't deserve better. 24/7 hear you useless, sure eventually you accept that you're useless and won't think otherwise mah
For more than $1.1 million salary per year.... you can disrespect me as much as chiu want... :spin:
24/7 degrade you can tahan meh?
 

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Why marry such a woman. 😂

There’s this particular couple living in the same block as me, the wife always complaining annd berating her husband infront of others.

Once I was in the same lift, she said “ why you always so lazy? No wonder you are so fat”….

I wonder why that guy go marry her also… both are the buibui kind, but she is worse than those fat , oily ahsoh at the markets and she’s only 30s... that guy must really have some fetish for pork belly to tahan her verbal abuse and disrespect
Maybe last time chiobu but never maintain after marriage
 
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