How to successfully chase a guy? What guys like?

Min Min

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i'm guessing elite guys will surely want to procreate and for less hereditary defect it's unacceptable for the female side to have broken history of "lose the will to live"

and they will want to know your medical history and run through your records
 

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first sight important just like go interview, first impression important...
 

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I don't know about other guys

For me, 4 simple steps for any ladies to chase me easily. Miss any 1 and I l don't think will be successful.

That's how someone made me fall for her in less than 2 months. But too bad, she not interested on me. She is just friendly.
  1. Not ugly
  2. Not fat
  3. Not old
  4. Spend time with me. I'm an introvert. Just text and talk to me regularly can already.
I still thinking what challenging criteria. Lol
 

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I am from old money family and prefer girl next door. Came from neighbourhood school background all the way. Family don't have parental approval, as long as I meet the girl I like, can close shop already.

I think those that are into sophisticated women, are maybe used to enjoying the high life since young. Of which, I didn't experienced that since my family was extremely business-centric and frugal.

Must invest in expensive carbon plate shoes!!

Out of curiousity, what is your nuclear family's networth? Feel free not to answer if you are not comfortable.
 

henghengonedragon

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As per title.

What are things that girls do for you will give you hint that she likes you? Or what are things girls do can successfully score a date or at least earn some brownie points for you to have interest?

So far, I have never successfully chased any guys or make any guy like me. Only when I stop caring about them, they start to like me and chase me but I already moved on LOL

Is it all men just fan jian? And girls around me all agree that no way can chase guys, those managed to chase is caz guys already like her. True?

For girls, with enough time and sincerity, don't like also can end up together. I think guys first interaction already set their mind right? No matter what she do, it will never work?
被爱被追会比较好。如果会感恩, 会是幸福的。如果去追一个人, 不成功的话只有失望和悲伤。
 

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1st, go community center sign up for cooking class. You want men to like you, satisfy his stomach. Making man go on date and pay for expensive meal is a turnoff. Going to his house to show off your cooking skill is the real deal.

2nd, go to church. Don't go Buddhist or Taoist temple. This one is all boomers with big belly. Go church and you will see a lot of yandao.

3rd, pretend to love his mother. When his mother want to wash the dishes after dinner, quickly take over. After that mop the whole kitchen.
Fail already
 

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I am from old money family and prefer girl next door. Came from neighbourhood school background all the way. Family don't have parental approval, as long as I meet the girl I like, can close shop already.

I think those that are into sophisticated women, are maybe used to enjoying the high life since young. Of which, I didn't experienced that since my family was extremely business-centric and frugal.

Must invest in expensive carbon plate shoes!!
Girl from next bungalow or girl from next flat?
 

IAmChiobu12M

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Nv chase before.
If u like a guy give him green light he will chase you.
I think I more traditional prefer to be chased.
If girl chase guy later the guy take for granted or worse still brag to everyone got girl chase him. Or he can also be tgt with the girl and not like her.
Dont like heartbreaks.
Yes I learn that chasing is guys job. I just wanted open thread to tcss and also see how guys perceive. But personally I think hint is enough. Obvious hint at max. But won't waste resources to chase.

Anyway no point la, guys I find attractive usually already taken or too high ses.
 
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