How to successfully chase a guy? What guys like?

Nevereatrice

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Nv chase before.
If u like a guy give him green light he will chase you.
I think I more traditional prefer to be chased.
If girl chase guy later the guy take for granted or worse still brag to everyone got girl chase him. Or he can also be tgt with the girl and not like her.
Dont like heartbreaks.
girls think like this huh? the girl chase guy guy later take for granted is a myth.
asshole are assholes no matter u chase or he chase ultimately is bec u chase/like the wrong person
 

fortunecat

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As per title.

What are things that girls do for you will give you hint that she likes you? Or what are things girls do can successfully score a date or at least earn some brownie points for you to have interest?

So far, I have never successfully chased any guys or make any guy like me. Only when I stop caring about them, they start to like me and chase me but I already moved on LOL

Is it all men just fan jian? And girls around me all agree that no way can chase guys, those managed to chase is caz guys already like her. True?

For girls, with enough time and sincerity, don't like also can end up together. I think guys first interaction already set their mind right? No matter what she do, it will never work?
You say when you stop caring, they start to like you.

Then you say once guys set their mind, it will never work no matter what she do.

These two are contradictory, because if they start to like you, it means they changed their mind.
 

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Yes I learn that chasing is guys job. I just wanted open thread to tcss and also see how guys perceive. But personally I think hint is enough. Obvious hint at max. But won't waste resources to chase.

Anyway no point la, guys I find attractive usually already taken or too high ses.
not true..... be it guys/girls....as long u like, just chase.....
男追女,隔座山;女追男,隔层纱

experienced guys aren't sb.... they can sense the girls hidden agenda when wooing.... just saying only.
 

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Out of curiousity, what is your nuclear family's networth? Feel free not to answer if you are not comfortable.
just dropped a pm, can share but prefer it to be private
Girl from next bungalow or girl from next flat?
Flat makes more sense, from the way I currently live my life and working towards
 

XiaoChilli

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Yes I learn that chasing is guys job. I just wanted open thread to tcss and also see how guys perceive. But personally I think hint is enough. Obvious hint at max. But won't waste resources to chase.

Anyway no point la, guys I find attractive usually already taken or too high ses.
Y I got this feeling your aim is very high one..
Sth like my boss type. 😅😅
 

Encouragesome1

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Nope is not true. Whether I'm chiobu or not, only people who knows me can judge. But guy chase girls definitely easier if you ask any girls.
I feel guys won’t change their mind unless they mybfd alr
For women they r fickle minded and could change minds.
For those who found chasing easy it was cos she is their “type” of girl they already might like
 

Encouragesome1

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I don't know about other guys

For me, 4 simple steps for any ladies to chase me easily. Miss any 1 and I l don't think will be successful.

That's how someone made me fall for her in less than 2 months. But too bad, she not interested on me. She is just friendly.
Means translated: pretty / good looking

Slim / average build

Young

Needs to good conversationalist to keep your conversation going - this one is dependent on you .. and how well you vibe with her

not easy to get a youth who will make so much effort to sustain a good date
  1. Not ugly
  2. Not fat
  3. Not old
  4. Spend time with me. I'm an introvert. Just text and talk to me regularly can already.
 

Encouragesome1

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can just come tell me "lets be together"
A mah tried this doesn’t work with a good fren
If he likes u he likes, if he doesn’t it doesn’t work. Conclusion: men don’t give good suggestions. I always ask other guy friends how to chase people and so I know some ways don’t work cos I tried hahah
no need to pattern all come out
i dunno how to see pattern
 

Encouragesome1

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I bought a graphics card. Can come my house? Help me install the card and any software needed?

Is that guy says no then he really 0 interest in you.

然后请他吃你 :s34: :lick::lick:

Graphics card is the easiest, btw. If need to setup water cooling, simi RAID and NAS, I also don't know.
I got frens who will help despite I know they zero interest in me .. this not a good test if the boy is alr friend / good friend or they know u r v goondu and will spoil ur hardware , they usually will help
 
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