How to successfully chase a guy? What guys like?

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Guys are usually more choosy about a gal’s physical attributes.

No need to to intelligent or highly educated, just dun be naive. Also too materialistic is also a turn off.
 

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As per title.

What are things that girls do for you will give you hint that she likes you? Or what are things girls do can successfully score a date or at least earn some brownie points for you to have interest?

So far, I have never successfully chased any guys or make any guy like me. Only when I stop caring about them, they start to like me and chase me but I already moved on LOL

Is it all men just fan jian? And girls around me all agree that no way can chase guys, those managed to chase is caz guys already like her. True?

For girls, with enough time and sincerity, don't like also can end up together. I think guys first interaction already set their mind right? No matter what she do, it will never work?
You know, you could go to the park.

got a lot of guys for you to chase there 😆
 

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In before have C cup 以上, no need ask also guy will chase.

 

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PS ah,

I do care about a lady's linguistic skills.
Personally, I cannot stand a ah lian talking.

WD half reveal is really not bad looking, but self proclaimed chiobu zero reveal means no confidence and most likely cui one.

Looks mean ALOT to a man (ladies like to delude themselves lol), nobody cares about writing ability la, u see those feminist liberal arts type write damn well but so self opinionated, nobody want to touch them with ten foot pole.
at the top 20% of men, they do care. The linguistic ability of a woman tells you how well educated and sophisticated someone is.
I’m not sure if some of the guys I know are the top 20% but they are pretty well to do and went to elite schools. They won’t want the ah lian type, no matter how pretty (unless for a fling). their partners are not just pretty, but also go to branded schools as well and from good family background. 门当户对. They won’t just go for looks - pretty girls are a dime a dozen.
 
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Guys are usually more choosy about a gal’s physical attributes.

No need to to intelligent or highly educated, just dun be naive. Also too materialistic is also a turn off.

That's for superficial guys choosing a girlfriend. Chosing a wife is totally different. If you really choose your wife who is not intelligent and not highly educated, you are destined to be in destitute and probably endless troubles...most likely poor also.
 

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That's for superficial guys choosing a girlfriend. Chosing a wife is totally different. If you really choose your wife who is not intelligent and not highly educated, you are destined to be in destitute and probably endless troubles...most likely poor also.
successful people are not only intelligent but have great emotional intelligence. these are key traits to succeed in listed companies, goverments and global criminal syndicates. so it does not matter what you do, whether it's good or bad. to succeed in life, you must possess all these qualities

you can have everything in life yet end up a destitute. go search the sad fates of hollywood stars, former billionaires and former presidents. success in life is not guaranteed. your education and intelligence does not guarantee you'll be successful forever. sure it significantly enhances your chances in life, but who knows what the hell is going to happen down the road? you need alot of luck in life

luck is what changes your fate. it can be a fateful toto 1st prize, somebody up there who admires you, a lucky stock pick, a gift from a stranger, and many more. luck is the most important thing in life. it controls where you're born, who your parents are, which year you're born, what time you're born and who your siblings are. many things in life are completely out of control

so try not to boast too much about your abilities or your success. the same lady luck that made you a winner at the jackpot can take it all away in an instant
 

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PS ah,

I do care about a lady's linguistic skills.
Personally, I cannot stand a ah lian talking.

Neither can i. Ah lians are very annoying. But writing and speaking are separate skills, and speaking well is the more attractive trait compared to writing.


at the top 20% of men, they do care. The linguistic ability of a woman tells you how well educated and sophisticated someone is.
I’m not sure if some of the guys I know are the top 20% but they are pretty well to do and went to elite schools. They won’t want the ah lian type, no matter how pretty (unless for a fling). their partners are not just pretty, but also go to branded schools as well and from good family background. 门当户对. They won’t just go for looks - pretty girls are a dime a dozen.

Rich family then dun bother talking about love. Dun need to talk about romance because fling is one thing, marriage is always transactional.
 

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Hmm I realised maybe why I fail caz the guys that attracts me are the top tier A grade where they have no lack of girls who likes them. So competition even more fierce. But normal guys no feel leh. Guys I like all damn alpha and do well in professional. Such guys already got many top tier chiobu throw themselves.
just realised?
isn’t this so obvious?
unless you look stunning or have both looks and brains…
 

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The guy say no how?
I think real life hard to just randomly ask a guy out lol.

Dating app is easy caz sure have to meet if not how to know each other. But guys you know real life need a lot planning to come up with an excuse that seems logical. If not damn throw face kena reject lol.
what?!?
what u say is no diff from any guy
guys face rejection all the tume
so why can’t girls experience that ?
 

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you got problems chasing guys? I am surprised considering your fame
 
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