新加坡不结婚的单身男，把时间和金钱花在自己身上，有多爽

[TheApathetic]

那我们又怎么知道我们是超人还是凡人？等到60岁才发现不过是凡夫俗子一个，就太迟了。司主还是回头是岸。 不然回头已时百年身。

这很简单
第一是独处的能力。 这是与生俱来的
第二如果你的亲人离世后，你没有任何感觉甚至可以一滴眼泪都不掉，你就绝非常人。

 

[xdivider]

Many oversimplified retirement = have money sure no problem. 司主要三思。

many assumed married = not alone in olden ages / got pple to take care of u. 一起三思吧......at least the singles are prepared a long time ago unlike the idealistic lot........

 

[Soracak]

Marry 50% end up same situation but with empty bank account and pending alimony.

 

[flowerpalms]

many assumed married = not alone in olden ages / got pple to take care of u. 一起三思吧......at least the singles are prepared a long time ago unlike the idealistic lot........

How is think is there are single, married, with child, no child etc. Everyone is different. Just because one is married doesn't mean he or she is perfect.

Status is not everything

 

[coyote]

这很简单
第一是独处的能力。 这是与生俱来的
第二如果你的亲人离世后，你没有任何感觉甚至可以一滴眼泪都不掉，你就绝非是常人。

你真一滴眼泪都不掉？可能因为你不是趟在床上的那个吧？怎么可能呢？

 

[flowerpalms]

Have this boomer colleague last time , keep criticise people who not married like say they got problem all this

The son got gf last time but broke up now 34 and single. Then keep quiet alrdy

 

[TheApathetic]

你真一滴眼泪都不掉？可能因为你不是趟在床上的那个吧？

这和躺在床上没关系。
你只需要把生老病死看成春夏秋冬。

 

[xdivider]

How is think is there are single, married, with child, no child etc. Everyone is difficult. Just because one is married doesn't mean he or she is perfect.

Status is not everything

that seem to be what they are thinking, considering the rhetorics about 60/70/80 for the single guy. for all they know, the single guy could be globe trotting and enjoying his life with a different woman every nite til 80 while some wait in a empty house for their kids to bring their grandson over to visit (real life story as told by a auntie, the person died in house alone)......

 

[coyote]

many assumed married = not alone in olden ages / got pple to take care of u. 一起三思吧......at least the singles are prepared a long time ago unlike the idealistic lot........

I doubted anyone is ever "prepared" for sickness and death... thing most have the realization upon going through the passing of their love one... How helpless, how they are left with no dignity. Don't get me wrong. I never said married with kids will not have such problems. Everyone will grow old and frail and die eventually. You just have a little more helps if your kids love you a little more... So... Just my personal feelings after bringing my kids to see my ailing parents... The feeling is just... Heart wrenching... Shall stop here.

 

[xdivider]

I doubted anyone is ever "prepared" for sickness and death... thing most have the realization upon going through the passing of their love one... How helpless, how they are left with no dignity. Don't get me wrong. I never said married with kids will not have such problems. Everyone will grow old and frail and die eventually. You just have a little more helps if your kids love you a little more... So... Just my personal feelings after bringing my kids to see my ailing parents... The feeling is just... Heart wrenching... Shall stop here.

im looking after my parents so they wun end up like that. im perfectly ok to go anytime after that. most importantly NOT in a hdb in sinkieland......

and about kids loving u, if they love u more they probably cannot love their own kids/spouse more. its a zero-sum here.......

 

[coyote]

这和躺在床上没关系。
你只需要把生老病死看成春夏秋冬。

说得太轻松了， 我们都是凡人。。。 怎可能看得那么轻呢。。。 送你一首“凡人歌”.

 

[Johnpierpontmorgan]

Foreigner come live condo

locals live in public housing

Song bo

 

[coyote]

im looking after my parents so they wun end up like that. im perfectly ok to go anytime after that. most importantly NOT in a hdb in sinkieland......

and about kids loving u, if they love u more they probably cannot love their own kids/spouse more. its a zero-sum here.......

如果你真的能看得那么开，是不是在组屋，是不是在新加坡，跟本就没什么关系了。如果你介意组屋，介意新加坡，你也跟我们一样，还是凡人一个。

我只是过着凡人的生活，柴米油盐，小孩老婆的一堆事，看小孩慢慢长大，看自己慢慢衰老。。。 这个就是我们生命的意义。

 

[xdivider]

如果你真的能看得那么开，是不是在组屋，是不是在新加坡，跟本就没什么关系了。如果你介意组屋，介意新加坡，你也跟我们一样，还是凡人一个。

我只是过着凡人的生活，柴米油盐，小孩老婆的一堆事，看小孩慢慢长大，看自己慢慢衰老。。。 这个就是我们生命的意义。

small place, lousy weather, no scenary, pass. its for people who are boring and like being a sardine.....

got money ill go elsewhere to spend and enjoy........stay here suffer for wat......

 

[TanKianW]

说得太轻松了， 我们都是凡人。。。 怎可能看得那么轻呢。。。 送你一首“凡人歌”.

认清自己是凡人已是非凡之人！

继续为生活，以及身边爱你的人，加油！

 

[djkopikat]

有时去芽笼叫鸡，有时去泰场吊花，真的很爽 lol

 

[Travis_Touchdown]

when yang... feels shiokz and free... when old riaoz... then jialatz...

 

[okichin]

Single, muscular, dog. Hints of pink dot leh

 

[socratesg]

Replace the thread title "单身男" with "基佬", then you will understand the real story behind the video.

 

[TanKianW]

这很简单
第一是独处的能力。 这是与生俱来的
第二如果你的亲人离世后，你没有任何感觉甚至可以一滴眼泪都不掉，你就绝非是常人。

果真非凡。

因这是块叉烧。